i don think its a turn off, its actually a ego booster in a way, for the fact that you have girls looking at you and coming on to you. it makes the situation a little easier because the girl is the one making her way to you. and upon acting upon it, for me personally it depends if their an actractive person, and has a good attitude with everyone inside the club and even outside the club when their not around a bunch of people. either way if you have girls coming on to you weather you act on it or not its still a turn on, for me anyway. ------------------