this weekend, i hooked up with a really hot guy through my cousin, and i was really excited when we were alone, because normally when a guy looks good, he has expirence with girls, and he knows what hes doing and he does a good job, but when we were kissing, it was the worst thing i had ever expirenced as far as kissing went. then, when he was fingering me, i didnt feel anything, it was so bad, it almost kind of hurt. i dont want to just ditch him because he looks really good and has a really good personality and all, but what can i do to "improve" his "skills"? any suggestions?!?!?!