I tottally agree with you. Its really about the atmosphere and who you are with. I dont like going out with people who have something to prove or who are going to worry more about how other people perceive them, and I feel like (no offense to ANYBODY, Im speaking in general here) that there are A LOT of this type of people at some of our favorite clubs. I love being around people who came for the music and to have a good time (ex: TEMPTS) or at least thats how I feel, i hardly ever catch a bad vibe from anybody there. Also, I think gettiing older has a lot to do with it