Whoa... were they serious relationships? tastyt ~ how so? I think dating more than one person at once can be justified... especially if they're relatively new. Sometimes, I think what I consider "becoming friends with someone/getting to know someone better" equates to dating in the eyes of others... there's always that "guys don't want to put forth effort into being just friends with a new girl unless he thinks he can eventually get in her pants" obstacle to get past. I went out with a guy once a week or so ago and thought he was a nice guy... nothing happened, but there just wasn't any chemistry and I told him I wasn't interested in him as a romantic partner, but was interested in developing a friendship. He turned mean, nasty, and downright rude on me and said something to the effect of: "Well, I'm not going to put any effort into it. You'll have to come see me, and I'm sure as hell not paying for anything anymore." That helped me realize I wanted nothing at all to do with the guy. Do any of you boys on the board share his sentiment? Probably not since you're sweethearts, but you never know... Contemplative, ~kitten >^.^<