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  2. Lastnight....

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    Whew, what a night... >O.O< Beat mine, although I didn't screw anyone either... no action at all. I tried to kiss my three little sisters after the countdown and they all ran away screaming from me. >O.o<

  6. What do you think of.... (female fashion trends)

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    Very true, glow...

    I don't like the look of the butterfly backless tops myself. I got a Joomi top for Christmas, but I'm not really feeling the "wanna be one big rhinestone" deal. I love cowl necks, for the function... as for extreme trends, I usually pass on them and go with whatever's cute and comfy. Gotta pick up a few new suits for interviews soon... >o.O<

  8. the broken hearted thread to end all broken hearted threads

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    Ouch. I'm sorry about what happened to you... :( Nevertheless, it sounds like you're protecting yourself and knowing that there's more to you than this relationship.

    Taking care of yourself and being proud of who you are is one thing. Doing it at the expense of the entire female population is another. Yes, a lot of people are fucked up, but I certainly wouldn't say it belongs more to one gender or the other.

    Also, if you say "I'm sorry" and you really mean it, a lot of people will will take you at that... it's just a question of whether they're in a mood to accept your apology. Sounds like your girlfriend wasn't in that kind of a mood, but it certainly doesn't go for all women at all times.

    Again, I'm sorry you're going through this siceone, but get some space (or else talk to this girl and figure out what's really going on, instead of hearing it through her antagonizing best friend)... hopefully you're talking out of your hurt here, and will realize that one miserable breakup/relationship doesn't spell disaster for all future relationships... there will be others.

    Best wishes,

    ~kitten >^.^<

  16. Breast Implants....

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    Almost every guy you ask will TELL you he "prefers them natural," but when it comes right down to it, most want girls with more-than-a-handful tits. Supply and demand, baby... THAT'S why all the playmates/Hollywood actresses have implants. Boobs that are AT LEAST a big B... anything more than a DD is freakish (unless it's proportionate), but most girls just want to bump up to a C or D anyway. Sucks that so many feel pressure to change their bodies to fit society's mold of "the perfect woman," but that's just how it is.

    I wanted them for the longest time, and may get them at some point in the future... but only up to a C. I'm an A right now, and it's nice not having to wear a bra all the time, or to wear cute backless halters... not worry about saggy bags when I'm 50... run without bouncing... etc., etc. But we'll see.

    Good luck with your decision, let us know how it turns out... I talked to Dr. Brad Jacobs, he's the best in NYC.

    Dr. Jacob's website

    He has a lot of before/after pics on his site... check it out. :)

    Hope that helps,

    ~kitten >^.^<

  19. Too Many Men!!!

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    Care to elaborate? :D

    About two years back (when I was young and silly ;) ), I tried juggling five guys and two girls... let's just say it backfired on me HORRIBLY, and I definitely learned my lesson.

    My current boyfriend doesn't mind my dating girls... I'm casually seeing a gorgeous sweetie at my school, and am dying to take her out in NYC (she's never been--think Sound Factory would be a good place to break her in?). We'll see what happens...

    Sorry for the detour, but bottom line is... have fun, stay safe, and keep in mind what you may be risking...

    As for friends, well... you can never have enough of those, irregardless of gender. :heart:

    Can't sleep,

    ~kitten >^.^<

  22. Help: Relationship Crisis! Please!

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    The most important thing, really, is to trust her. You're not doing that. You're being completely self-involved... you're freaking out. She needs time, she needs space, she needs, it seems, to not contact you... she needs a break. Give that to her. And stop acting out... do you want to guilt trip her into coming back to you? Her family, from what you say, seems to be shaming her enough... let her be and live your life. Most likely what she wants is her own life... not this sort of dependency from you.

    So, really, you can see this period as being two things... one, she needs to do this for her own reasons which you have to accept you will not find out until later if at all... two, you're sort of on trial here. I don't think she's doing it on purpose, but your actions do matter. Your focus could be on being good, being decent, being, without her for now, the man she would want to spend the rest of her life with.

    Being hurt is fine... being confused is fine... both, in fact, are pretty noble and speak very well of you. But don't fall to peices, don't wallow in it so completely that you threaten her with suicide, etc... get your life in order. Take the time to do what she most likely is doing with the time... figure out who you are, why you are, all those parts of yourself which you've maybe let slip away by being together.

    That, and keep seeking professional help... talking to a psychologist is good, and talking to your priest, etc.

    Life is complicated, people are complicated. Things are much more rewarding and beautiful when you learn to accept that, even though it generally means accepting a little more pain into your life.

    Best wishes,

    ~kitten >^.^<

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