ok guys.... what do you prefer? being on top or on the bottom? speaking as a girlie, i prefer being on top, i get to move how i want deeper, slower faster, i get to control, and then there's all the freedom for my husband to suck bite and do whatever he wants with his hands. i also definitley like being on top for anal, it makes it more intimate, although i'm torn with me stradling him as he's sitting on our couch, but then again i'm still on top!.. so what is it? top or bottom?