leviathanx

Biosilk's Rock Hard Gelee works great. It keeps it spiked even if you have a widow's peak or cowlick.

who cares? It makes for a good story

I don't mind women expressing sexual openness, but once it starts to get raunchy I find it unattractive. That is just me, and it may very well be wrong because we are supposed to be an equal society these days, but I tend to find that men are almost expected to be uncontrollable sex machines; whereas, women are supposed to care more about the love aspect. Ok... I'm going to get a bit technical - so everyone who wants to stop reading can. Now, the reason I believe the above is because of something I learned in psychology. Guys are instinctually trying to spread as much of their seed as possible to maximize their offspring. A guy can produce a baby every about 30 minutes, so nature has made him much more sex prone. Women, on the other hand, require 9 months to produce a baby, and need protection during that time. So women instinctually are more apt at creating an emotional connection with their lover, who needs to protect her and the baby for months to come. Ok, end of the evolution explanation. Sorry.

Just curious geo... how tall are you? Most of my friends with your build are under 5'11". Are you on creatine or protein supplements? I've been lifting pretty heavy for the past year or two, and I have the definition, but I need to put on the mass (I'm 175 lbs. right now).

hey... you have to start somewhere - give the guy a break.

You think that is fucked up? Check out some of the videos at http://www.stileproject.com Japscat - need I say more... ughh.

The key phrase was that last sentence about me not being a one-night-stand guy. So I, too, am looking for someone who is like myself, I guess.

I don't know... I can see where Joey is coming from. I mean, this swinger type life is fine up until a point, but you don't want to settle down with someone who is going to screw the next guy right behind your back. I actually respect girls more if they DON'T give it up on the first night. Then again, I'm not really into the whole one-night-stand lifestyle.

... wrong picture - my bad. I'll post the right one when I get it scanned. [This message has been edited by leviathanx (edited 01-30-2001).]

Ok, here is my pic (if it worked) - I'm the guy on the left, then my sister, then my cousin. It is a Christmas pic, so I'm not decked out. What do you think? -LeviathanX *never mind, it didn't work [This message has been edited by leviathanx (edited 01-29-2001).]

It depends on the venue. I would say that most people at raves don't care what you wear because half of them are so far gone from drugs, and the other half is so far gone from music. At some trendy house/trance clubs, however, it is probably better to wear sexy clothing (if you want to attract guys), but if you don't care - then no one else is going to care. Style is about how you act, not what you are wearing.

Anybody here use an astringent on their skin after they shave (their face)? What does it do? [This message has been edited by leviathanx (edited 04-28-2001).]

Anyone who is a student at UVa and would like to carpool to DC clubs on some weekends let me know, I can drive or we can switch it up.

I'm curious as to why clubbers feel this is necessary to do. I mean, isn't it more masculine to have chest hair. You just end up looking like a little girl without it. [This message has been edited by leviathanx (edited 04-28-2001).]

How 'bout you just ask him why he doesn't call? Or ask him for his number, so you can call him. Simple.

Oh... I definitely go for the music and the dancing in the first place. I mean I go to raves a lot and no one grinds there, it is all about the music (or, unfortunately, the drugs). I guess your right, sometimes I find myself jumpin' to conclusions about what people are thinking about me too much. Most of the time I'm wrong anyway. I tend to find I have more fun if I go just to dance then to meet girls - I'm more relaxed. [This message has been edited by leviathanx (edited 01-20-2001).]

First of all... a lot of guys go to clubs to hook it up with a girl that night. This idea is popularized in about every hip-hop video I've seen lately - so it is a misconception. However, there are a lot of sluts at these clubs that will do that. Guys realize this and will try their luck on any girl they see - if they can't get you they will try to get someone else. You don't understand the fine line us guys have to walk. There are girls that say we push to hard for sex (in which case we won't get it), and there are girls that say we don't push hard enough (in which case we also won't get it). Want a solution girls? Approach us for god's sake if you are interested. Generally the guys that aren't forcing themselves on some girl are the one's that are going to respect your wishes a bit more.

Ok, I have a burnin' question for the girls in this forum. I'm 6'1" and 170lbs. with well-defined, but not massive muscles (i.e. I look muscular in tight fitting clothing, but not loose fitting clothing). I think most of the girls find me attractive, but everytime my friends and I club we always get up on the boxes and try to tear up the floor before we dance in the crowd. Some of the girls we have talked to say that they are intimidated to approach an attractive good dancer; others have said they think we might be gay because we aren't immediately trying to ride up on some girl; and others think we are being cocky by trying to stand out on the boxes. So... which is it? I'd like to know so I can get more girls to approach me - rather than always having to ride up on some girl like a drunken frat boy.

I would check out www.fashionmall.com to get an idea of what different stores have before you go out searching. They have a good selection of fashionable stores online all at one place. What city are you in? NYC? I'm in Philly, and the only place I can really suggest looking for stuff would be on South Street. French Connection also has some nice clothes sometimes for clubbing.

Alright, for all of you who have been asking for an online site with some good club/rave gear I suggest a website called Karmaloop, http://www.karmaloop.com/html/indexhtm.html If you are refering to the 'standard' mainstream club gear (i.e. tight shirts, black pants, and dark shoes) - you can find these clothes absolutely anywhere (banana republic, armani exchange, gap, structure, etc.) - so get your asses out to the mall for this kind of stuff. [This message has been edited by leviathanx (edited 01-16-2001).]