I've done it a couple of times here in DC when I first moved here. And when I went to Europe - I traveled alone - so all of my adventures were solo. It makes me nervous, though. I'm super paranoid about someone finding out I'm there alone and spiking my drink or following me home or something. Byproduct of being a Criminologist, I guess. Now, here in DC I would do it - but only because chances are I will know someone there. Anyway, I dont' think it is pathetic and if I were a guy I would probably do it no problem!