girl i totally feel you. in a way, i want to meet someone who takes initiative and knows what she wants. as i said before, if we're supposed to go by our thoughts and desires, i'd have no doubts about anything. but it's not only that. i have yet to be in a relationship with a girl and would love to be in one, but i don't want to do to someone what was done to you. i don't even know if that's what would happen in the first place since it's never happened to me, so who knows. ------------------