To tell you the truth sometimes ill spend a lot of time on foreplay and about an hour or so south of the border and maybe an hour or so more doing the deed and i wont get off once... the sheer joy i get from seeing the toe curling, face crunching, body tremors and sighs and moans of my name in the context with "oh my god, <insert name here> dont stop." is all the pleasure i need so sometimes i agree orgasms arent always that important...