I am sorry for your loss (Pulse)....you don't have to say words to the family I am sure the support and your strength will help them thru this rough time. I also send out my deepest sympathy to the victims wife...they were just married in November. As JBR put it....don't let a day go by without telling someone just how you feel, how special they are, how much you love them, or just to even let them know you care. Life is important and precious.