I just got out of an on again off again relationship of a couple of years...and I know what ur going through....yes it is possible to fall in love again, but u must know that the reasons they love u again may not be the same as the 1st. I'm sry that u were in an accident, but it seems to me that ur girlie took that as a wake up call not to lose u. She may come around, but then again she may not. But I tried for a year to overcome the feeling that I wasn't loved and when he was in love again, it wasn't the same. Some ppl just can't get over grudges....keep on smilin man...that's all I can say...hope it helps.