Oh I know that dude, that is why I am asking everyone. Is the general consensus that having your girl ream you in the ass with a strap on slightly homosexual in nature or not? For me....well, I have gay friends, that is all well and good. But the thought of one guy reaming the other in the ass is disgusting to me. And the thought of a women (no matter how hot) reaming me in the ass sounds slightly gay and quite painful! But as you said, to each his own. I would never tell other people what to do (the religious right can do that). I say live and let live, but I am interested in what others are doing and thinking while doing it. That is why I am here after all. I would never judge or say something is bad, just maybe not for me, you know? Like, animal sex not for me, anal sex, not for me, gay sex, not for me, sex with fat girls, not for me, sex with prostitues, again not for me, sex clubs......hmmmmm sounds like fun if safe sex was being followed.