it also depends on what clubs you go to and what the other persons view on clubs are. I know my ex g/f who is from jersey only knew one type of clubs and type of clubbers, until she met me.Then i started taking her to clubs and parties that was driven by the music and not drugs. And she fell in love with the scene. She hates clubs liek crobar,spirit,avalon, but loves cielo, love,deep,shelter,sulivanroom. Same thing with my current gf now she been to clubs allvoer the world (she was a professional dancer for yrs). And only now until she met me did she finalyl understand the whole culturebhind it. And now looks forward to the monthy 718 sessions,cielo, deephouse shelter type of aprties. Cause she cant stand the crowd the big rooms atttract.