I've been talking, hanigin out + flirting with this bartender at this one restaurant I always eat at since Febuary. He offered to take me out, we talked on the phone couple of times, even made an attempt to goto the movies . One time he asked me to spend the nite at his house but I didn't take his offer. Last week after he got off work - we went to his place and had sex. He tells me " I'm a great fuck and " I love fucking you". But the thing is he said he is "seeing someone" - I'm assuming it's an open relationship becuz he fucked me. So I call him Saturday morn to see if he's available for more fucking but he got other plans - I tell him look - if you got a gf I'm not gonna chase after you . DO you want to see me again ? Yes or No ? He says " You knew I had a gf- We'll talk about it . I don't want to say no Why didn't he tell me he had a GF - until I got to his house ? Why did he act like he was into me for one month before fucking me ?? I'm thinkin - since he flirted w/ me a month without saying he had a gf - he must not like her that much ? I'm just sitting here laughing at myself for playing myself!! This type of shit happens to me ALL THE TIME with men I meet at clubs/bars !!! Oh did I mention - after we finished fucking he tells me to keep it hush hush down at the bar he works at ! MEN IN NYC are soo fucked up !! (women too) Nobody in this city has respect for relationships anymore !!