lol, i wouldnt go that far hun, i cant think of one person i know who's got the whole emotional roller coaster on lock. ive been through all sorts of levels with different people, and even after all the experience of getting hurt and hurting, i cant even really say that i know whats right and wrong and how to prevent it. love can be sensational and tramatic, just depends on where things are and if they fluctuate. infatuation can be nice, if you're outside looking in and dont have too many real emotions involved, so hit or miss you'll be ok. obsession though i dont think is healthy one way or another. unless you can town down the feelings after its been recipriated or not then you're almost doomed to get upset and emotionally scared. flings i cant seem to do, ive never been able to just hook up with someone and not develop feelings. i get attached, sometimes too easily and from my experience it doesnt always end up on the greener side of the fence. the only real surefire way to dabble and not get hurt is not to do it at all im convinced. but someone once said its better to have loved and lost than to never love at all. and i agree 100%