What did she even get into it with that guy for? Yeah maybe he shouldn't have called her a bitch, and she shouldn't have called him anything. But in the beginning, she kept saying she saw nothing wrong with using the word. The fact that she uses the word back home, and that shes dated 10 black guys or whatever, that he doesn't know who she hangs out with or whatever. It doesn't matter... I have plenty of friends that are black, and I don't use it, b/c I'm simply not comfortable using the word, I don't see the point. But I know groups of friends, where it's mixed, black/white/spanish/asian, where they use the word among each other with no problems, but they're friends, and they've come to the understanding. I also know ppl who've gotten into fights over the word, where ppl thought the other person shouldn't be using that word. It's kinda like in the news the other day, when Hillary Clinton said something about gandhi and pumping gas, I laughed and found it funny, I'm Indian, I didn't take offense to it, but I know other indians that did. If an indian person were the make that same joke, those ppl would be laughing. It's like an inside thing, where you can say things about your own ppl with your own ppl, and not have others do it.