Maybe you look feminine and so he thought you were gay, so to ease it up and be friendly he said that... Think about that hunny? . . . Okay, all kiddin' around...this is Miami...get used to anything and everything. Unless you're getting molested, you'll be called everything in the book, hey...maybe the guy had 4 chicks before you in a row, and he was in the zone...srsly.. it dont mean shit dude...just go out, tip your bartender well (they'll be thankful back, trust me) and have a good time!