Respect. It's all about the music. Phuck these posers, losers, for whom its a flesh market. So what if someone wants to enjoy music as they get older? I've been clubing now for 15 years- I've been to places, heard so many DJs, experienced so much. Posers are just that posers. Hell, if it was in vogue to hang out at Dunkin Donuts listening to Muzak, they'd be there too.