xxsweetie Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 I met this guy in sf a few months ago, we stared talking and at the end of the night I gave him my number (he wrote it on a paper) and he promised to call. He didn't and I ran into him again the following week he said he was sorry he didn't call but he was under the influence and lost my # (im thinking, yea bs) so he asks me for it again and I said no. Anyway, las Saturday I run into this guy in sf after about 4 months and we end up hanging out the whole time. I have to say that the guy has crossed my mind once or twice over the past few months... So he asks when we're hanging out again, I said "u lost my # remeber?" He had a cell phone on him this time, so I give him my #, we hang out til about 8:30 am and he promises to call. He actually did call a few hours later left me a vm, i called him back, we spoke for a bit and he had to go, said he would call me back. When he called me back, I was in the middle of something and said I would call him back. I called him back in a while and left him a vm (i think.) ANyway this was on Sunday, and he has not called back...wtf? I dont get it...Any input:idea: ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 It sounds like he is Genuine to me from your story, but he is probably just playing little phone tag games. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 hes a man....hes stupid.. call him back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hitokiri24 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 u can 1. wait an keep wonderin whats up or 2. take the initiative call him an find out what the deal is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by gothzane hes a man....hes stupid.. call him back. I hear what you're saying...but would i just act like nothing happened and im just calling to say hi??? I dont need to hear a bs excuse as to why he didn't call back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 skip it in general....men have the attention span of a hummingbird crossbred with a rock.Hes hes cool be cool...if hes not..fuck em theres more of us out there.....some that may even return your phone call if thats the most important thing for you.But as you describe ...if hes fun to hang out with...dont let a stupid phone stand in the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 i think you should call him to tell you to vm you and then vm him to tell him to call you...maybe he'll get as circular and crazy as he's got you going... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 wow...yeah I think Gothzane is on to something here...((glad you crawled outta your coffin to enlighten us... )anywho, me personally, I never call a guy. Never ever. I just have issues with it. But Gotzane is totally right...obviously the two of you have clicked more than once. So bite the bullet and just call again. This could be one of the many games/tests guys play....so show him up! Don't let this get lost in phone tag shuffle! ;) Good Luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted April 23 Author Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by marcid21 wow...yeah I think Gothzane is on to something here...((glad you crawled outta your coffin to enlighten us... )anywho, me personally, I never call a guy. Never ever. I just have issues with it. But Gotzane is totally right...obviously the two of you have clicked more than once. So bite the bullet and just call again. This could be one of the many games/tests guys play....so show him up! Don't let this get lost in phone tag shuffle! ;) Good Luck! I hear ya…I don’t really like calling guys either that’s why im hesitating…I don’t want to be immature and play these 12 y/o games though … Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by xxsweetie I hear ya…I don’t really like calling guys either that’s why im hesitating…I don’t want to be immature and play these 12 y/o games though … just call him, what do you have to lose....just like what gothzane said...there are many men out there....Don't stress over it hun, good luck with whatever you decide..as for me I would call, cause I hate childish games:blown:too many men and too little time.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jy Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 maybe he's just busy or hasn't had the time to call back because he knew you'd end up spending time talking.. i'm sure the guy means well .. from what you said anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 Originally posted by jy maybe he's just busy or hasn't had the time to call back because he knew you'd end up spending time talking.. i'm sure the guy means well .. from what you said anyway Agreed... it sounds like he's into you so give him a call! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted April 23 Report Share Posted April 23 id call too, if hes an asshole about it obviously hes not a guy you want anything to do with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxsweetie Posted April 24 Author Report Share Posted April 24 thanks guys...I'll probably do it today, ill keep you posted as to what happens:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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