"Guy Calling" Update

[xxsweetie]

So...after much contemplation and taking the advice that most of you guys gave me, I decided to call my sf guy one more time to see what the deal was. I called him on Thursday, left ANOTHER VOICEMAIL and was pretty sure that he wasn't going to call back.

I wake up this Saturday morning to find a call and voicemail from him at 9:40am! Saying, "hey sorry I havent been able to get back to you, I've been busy, call me back."

I havent called him back yet and dont know if I should, just because I think its rude that it took him his long to call back. I mean Im busy too, but you can always take a few minutes out to call and say hi. Dont you think??? :confused:

[tastey]

Originally posted by xxsweetie

So...after much contemplation and taking the advice that most of you guys gave me, I decided to call my sf guy one more time to see what the deal was. I called him on Thursday, left ANOTHER VOICEMAIL and was pretty sure that he wasn't going to call back.

I wake up this Saturday morning to find a call and voicemail from him at 9:40am! Saying, "hey sorry I havent been able to get back to you, I've been busy, call me back."

I havent called him back yet and dont know if I should, just because I think its rude that it took him his long to call back. I mean Im busy too, but you can always take a few minutes out to call and say hi. Dont you think??? :confused:

if you think he´s worth it, call him ONE more time, speak on his voicebox "hey it´s me, [name]. i´m too busy for this kind of "phone tag" games, if you want to speak to me call me at [sPECIFIC date and time]"

if he doesn´t call on that time forget him, if he calls at another time ignore his call. you will not want to play that kind of games do you?

[Guest gabo]

so why did you call him if you're not going to call him back??

[xxsweetie]

Originally posted by gabo

so why did you call him if you're not going to call him back??

I was hoping that he would call back in a more timely manner...I'm not cool with the whole phone tag thing

[jy]

honestly.. i think you're demanding too much from the poor guy..

if he's busy he's busy and i don't think you should hold that against him. you don't know what's going on in his life. sometimes when you're busy you don't feel like "talking" at the end of the busy day..

you should be happy he called you back at all. just take it slow because from where i see it you're pushing him and he might get scared off..

[cool2223423123]

I would like not pin all your hopes on one guy, cause when I go out I get like 4-5 girls phone numbers you know?

Go out this Thursday meet like 12 guys for 10 minutes, exchange phone numbers with some of them, then you can have lots of men to call and think about.

LOL!!!

Polyamory is the name of my game baby!

(Your goal should be to meet 4 guys an hour, and get maybe 1 phone number an hour)

[xxsweetie]

Originally posted by cool2223423123

I would like not pin all your hopes on one guy, cause when I go out I get like 4-5 girls phone numbers you know?

Go out this Thursday meet like 12 guys for 10 minutes, exchange phone numbers with some of them, then you can have lots of men to call and think about.

LOL!!!

Polyamory is the name of my game baby!

(Your goal should be to meet 4 guys an hour, and get maybe 1 phone number an hour)

thanks for the words of wisdom, but that's not really my style . Its not like I have hopes for anyone in particular, Im waaay beyond that, I just think its a little rude, but maybe thats just me