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Do you trust people? have your trusts been broken? can you trust others after people you trusted break that trust? how do you deal with ppl who've broken your trust?

(hows this for a topic with substance, jon?)

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Originally posted by joeg

Do you trust people? have your trusts been broken? can you trust others after people you trusted break that trust? how do you deal with ppl who've broken your trust?

(hows this for a topic with substance, jon?)

you can trust me. trust a guy like me. you can start by trusting me with your credit card number, social security number and passwords to all the porn sites you're a member of.

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. . . trust is like everything else, a commodity . . . Can it be broken, yes, but at the same time It can be earned back. If you have had your trust in someone broken, then it is YOUR job to watch them atone, then evaluate if it's genuine, something that is indeed easy to see . . .

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Simple. Someone breaks my trust i get angry.

i go home.

i spill gummy bears and powdered sugar on the floor.

i wait.

i wait

i wait.

i watch ants come and eat it.

i vacuum the ants up screaming wildly that they shouldnt fuck with me.

i sing the Mr. Rogers song.

then i feel better.

I trust Mr. Rogers.

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I look at trust as a give-and-take thing. You gotta start somewhere with someone, so you wait to see if they live up to their words.

I'll usually trust someone in the beginning, but not get in too deep with someone unless they've earned my trust with something big, like helping me out when im in need or just being there.

I've been hurt in the past by ingrates, but that doesn't mean i will never trust again. I'll just be more careful, and take it one step at a time :)

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Originally posted by cintron

Simple. Someone breaks my trust i get angry.

i go home.

i spill gummy bears and powdered sugar on the floor.

i wait.

i wait

i wait.

i watch ants come and eat it.

i vacuum the ants up screaming wildly that they shouldnt fuck with me.

i sing the Mr. Rogers song.

then i feel better.

I trust Mr. Rogers.

:jawdrop: <rubs eyes> :eek: ... :laugh: :laugh:

The funny thing is, I can totally imagine Cintron doing this, with that same maniacal grin he got when he was feeling the music at Starscape and screaming "FUCK NEW YORK!!!" ;):D

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Originally posted by bustaknut2001

You trust people who you instictually can tell are not liars. If you trust your gut instinct you know who and who not to trust.

what do you do when you're wrong?

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Originally posted by cintron

Simple. Someone breaks my trust i get angry.

i go home.

i spill gummy bears and powdered sugar on the floor.

i wait.

i wait

i wait.

i watch ants come and eat it.

i vacuum the ants up screaming wildly that they shouldnt fuck with me.

i sing the Mr. Rogers song.

then i feel better.

I trust Mr. Rogers.

and this, was in fact, another MOFONGOâ„¢ :goofy: moment.

;)

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Originally posted by joeg

thats the only person you can really trust.

not necessarily... I trust my best friend, my family and others.. IT all depends on the person you are trying to trust... Trust is something that has to be earned....Some people I trust more than others, some I never have and never will trust and some i trust totally... its different for every person i know..

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Originally posted by cintron

Simple. Someone breaks my trust i get angry.

i go home.

i spill gummy bears and powdered sugar on the floor.

i wait.

i wait

i wait.

i watch ants come and eat it.

i vacuum the ants up screaming wildly that they shouldnt fuck with me.

i sing the Mr. Rogers song.

then i feel better.

I trust Mr. Rogers.

:laugh: do you trust the ants?? :confused:

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It's very hard for me to trust friends.... just recently I've found a few who I know have practically saved my life....

As far as relationships...well... I can be really paranoid in the beginning, a lot of doubt, insecurity....just because I've been through really bad ones, but in the end, without taking a risk and trusting that person you ultimately have nothing.....

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Originally posted by joeg

can you trust others after people you trusted break that trust? how do you deal with ppl who've broken your trust?

Fuck No, and I either dismiss them or look at them in a whole other light.

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I normally only give an inch or two to friends and people that come in and out of my life.....giving them the whole mile is way too much room for them to mess up.

After time, and some experiences with individuals, you get to know them and you develop a sense in which you could either trust them completely, or give up on them entirely.

....once a trust is broken, I think it is possible to get it back. It just depends how much effort you think is worth investing in that particular relationship. For me, it's not an easy thing.

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