copahc Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 What a great freakin' night... I JUST GOT DUMPED! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 i'm sorry to hear that . keep your chin up, girl! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by copahc What a great freakin' night... I JUST GOT DUMPED! I am SORRY are you ok???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by copahc What a great freakin' night... I JUST GOT DUMPED! Is Ok. Keep your head up. Although we all know it is hard. Stay strong. PS - Would you mind disclosing the reasons? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted January 8 Author Report Share Posted January 8 Well he said that " I wasn't ready for a relationship" - yet we've been in one for 6 months... huhOh well... I'm ok, he's probably right anyway... maybe I should be single for a while. Ha - after about a week I probably won't be saying that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elementx Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by copahc Well he said that " I wasn't ready for a relationship" - yet we've been in one for 6 months... huhOh well... I'm ok, he's probably right anyway... maybe I should be single for a while. Ha - after about a week I probably won't be saying that After a week you wont be saying that. But after a month you will be glad. Believe it or not. When you wake up to shit you missed when with the other person. It opens another world. But of course. If that Dry spell goes on too long. Like mine LOL it is back to the.... I wish I had someone to come home to. Or someone to call. BLAH BLAH BLAH. But as far as his reason. It is a crock of shit. There is something else to it.PS - Where in CT are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by copahc Well he said that " I wasn't ready for a relationship" - yet we've been in one for 6 months... huh sorry to be nosey, but why arent you ready:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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ou812 Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Go have sex w/ his best friend.................hahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 damn, that sux. doesnt sound like you really got dumped though, it just sounds like he wants to take his time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by copahc What a great freakin' night... I JUST GOT DUMPED! It's his loss - who knows, when and if he's ready, maybe you will have already found better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by mystify82281 It's his loss - who knows, when and if he's ready, maybe you will have already found better EXACTLY!That type of thing (the whole "not ready 4 a relationship") has happened to me B4, and it only makes you more appealing and alluring if you just go about your business and just start hanging out with new people. Don't worry Copahc... I don't think anyone goes through life without this kind of heartache. Now is your time to live up the single life, not mope around wishing you were in a relationship.Re-discover the good things about being single: doing what you want, when u want without someone looking over you, being free to date and see whomever u want. I must say 4 me, sometimes i wish i was in a relationship. But if the person's not ready, u gotta respect that and try to move on. Everything will be copasetic , copa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by somebitch doesnt sound like you really got dumped though, it just sounds like he wants to take his time. She's got a point Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 Originally posted by gmccookny That type of thing (the whole "not ready 4 a relationship") has happened to me B4, and it only makes you more appealing and alluring if you just go about your business and just start hanging out with new people. Re-discover the good things about being single: doing what you want, when u want without someone looking over you, being free to date and see whomever u want. Exactly! life is what you make it... so use this time as an opportunity - to do whatever you want Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehype Posted January 8 Report Share Posted January 8 let the record show.. I HATE BEING SINGLE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by thehype let the record show.. I HATE BEING SINGLE :isok:you are still having fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Codica3 Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Aww.. sorry to hear.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted January 9 Author Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by mystify82281 It's his loss - who knows, when and if he's ready, maybe you will have already found better Actually he didn't say that he wasn't ready, he said that I wasn’t ready. I guess just because I don’t know exactly what I want yet that I’m too unstable for him or something. He’s sorta right, because I’m really confused as to what I want right now. I really like him… and he’s a great guy, but I’m just not sure if he’s “the one”Why does life have to be so confusing? Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be ok by myself, it’s just gonna suck.Let the record show, that I also hate being single!BTW thanks everybody Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Originally posted by copahc Actually he didn't say that he wasn't ready, he said that I wasn’t ready. I guess just because I don’t know exactly what I want yet that I’m too unstable for him or something. He’s sorta right, because I’m really confused as to what I want right now. I really like him… and he’s a great guy, but I’m just not sure if he’s “the one” That's the story of EVERY girl i've ever had feelings for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Originally posted by copahc Actually he didn't say that he wasn't ready, he said that I wasn’t ready. I guess just because I don’t know exactly what I want yet that I’m too unstable for him or something. He’s sorta right, because I’m really confused as to what I want right now. I really like him… and he’s a great guy, but I’m just not sure if he’s “the one”Why does life have to be so confusing? Anyway, I’m sure I’ll be ok by myself, it’s just gonna suck.Let the record show, that I also hate being single!BTW thanks everybody its ok not to be sure....maybe this is a good time for you to relax and think of what YOU really want. you never know, maybe its him?? (and if it is him, things might be even better) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Me too...like 3 days ago.....6 months , did about 3 months long distance then he said it's too hard...bullshit.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 This is a good chance to look at things differently and just check out all the fresh new cuts of meat that is available now There are many different kinds:PRIME rib-- the pick of the litter T-Bone steak-- rough n tough but gets the job doneFilet Mignon -- delicate and tastypork chops -- in case you're really desperate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted January 10 Author Report Share Posted January 10 Originally posted by gmccookny There are many different kinds:PRIME rib-- the pick of the litter T-Bone steak-- rough n tough but gets the job doneFilet Mignon -- delicate and tastypork chops -- in case you're really desperate :laugh: I never really thought of it that way...sounds mouthwatering Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
incredulous Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Originally posted by totallytrance Me too...like 3 days ago.....6 months , did about 3 months long distance then he said it's too hard...bullshit.... long distance relationships are HARD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by copahc What a great freakin' night... I JUST GOT DUMPED! on the flipside of the coin... look at it like this, you were just freed from a dead end relationship... How many times have I called your nameAnd wondered if you hear me, see meKnow the things I'm feeling in my soulYou turned around and you answered meYou held out your arms to meHelped me when I needed you the mostAnd you set me freeFinally I seeYou set me freeIn you I can believeYou set me freeI was alone when you came to meSaw that I was naked, brokenCouldn't find the strength to carry onYou lifted me up and you sheltered meYou opened up your heart to meLoved me when I needed you the mostAnd you set me freeFinally I seeYou set me freeIn you I can believeYou set me freeYou're everything to meYou set me freeIn you I can believeYou set me free Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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