puppyfur Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 and...do u always acknowledge the good looking buys or do u ignore them...and hope they are intrigued by u? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 i hear that a smack across the ass works best.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 don't ask me; i don't even notice any guys at all when i'm out anymore. i'm too busy spending quality time with my friends or dancing to ever meet anyone. and i barely even notice men - they pretty much all look the same to me at this point (*shrug*). i guess if i do meet a guy again, it'll be because he approached me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Honestly, I've never really liked it when guys approach me. I have no problem talking to random people, just not if they're hitting on me. I get all flustered, and sort of on the defensive. Most guys I've dated have either been friends, friends of friends, or guys who *I* approached. I feel too shy when someone just comes up to me out of the blue, I'd rather do it on my own terms. Sorry, I know that doesn't help you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dolcemimi Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 BE FUNNY ! If you can make me laugh you got me ! I don't like serious appraoches - " Yo let me talk to you for sec' - Alot of Spanish/black guys use that line .. I HATE IT WHEN guys give me their number and say 'It's up to you" I don't like guys who act cool - I like guys who act like idiots ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuGaRNSpIcE Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 yea, just b urself , and dont throw out any corny lines, just be casual, thats how i like to be approached, and dont be pushy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 best line that someone used on me in a club.. guy: so i was wondering if maybe we could go out sometime, drinks, etc me: *rolleyes* uh yeah whatever. seriously how many other girls are you talking to ? (had no intentions of giving mynumber initially) guy: only one..... me: yeah? guy: yeah you. me: you know.. that was a good one (although somewhat cheesy) and give him A for effort and creativity. and ended up giving him my number. but i have to admit that for the most part, guys that approach me in clubs, bars etc i am pretty quick to dismiss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Ãt´s not about how you approach, it´s about if you can follow up. you will get away with "woooopediiiidoooodaaa" (trust me i tried ) as opener when you can follow up you gotta be playful playful playful !example:(after some very brief smalltalk, name, etc) HER: so what do you do? ME: (leaning in close to her ear) i give women pleasure - if they desire it... HER: (smiling) uh, i mean for work. what do you do for work? ME: well, i am studying event managemnt. and you? HER: i am studying law at blahblah university and i also work part time at... ME: you know what, (girlsname)? i think i will make you my new girlfriend. HER: uh... what!? ME: yeah, i just decided that you will make a nice girlfriend for me. HER: nice try. i already have a boyfriend. ME: well that's good. it gives you something to do when I am not around... HER: well, i don't think my boyfriend would be happy if i was seeing someone else. ME: i have no response to that. tell you what... i will make you my favorite girlfriend. HER: (laughing) um, are you deaf? i have a boyfriend. ME: i don't understand that last phrase... HER: haha, you don't even know me. ME: (smile, wink) ah yes... but i know what i like. and i am used to winning. HER: not this time... ME: (pout face) no? so tell me, (girlsname), are you my sweetie? (big smile) HER: (laughing) no! go away! ME: do you want to see me again? HER: i can't! boyfriend, remember? ME: that's not what i asked. do you want to see me again? HER: maybe. ME: give me your number. HER: (laughing) no! you are a bad man! ME: how can you be my favorite girlfriend if i don't even have your number? HER: i will give you my cell. i never have it on, but you can leave me a message. Do you have a pen? ME: i will remember it. HER: (smiling) it's xxx-xxxx. i don't even know why I am talking to you. You are bad news. ME: i know why. because you are in love with me. HER: (laughing) hardly. i don't even know you. ME: oh yes you do. what we have between us is age old. we were meant to be lovers. it is in the stars. HER: oh really... ME: of course! i see it in your eyes. you and i will be together. it's just a matter of when. HER: you're bad... this whole conversation was carried out with my arm around her and a "just kidding" attitude. lots of kino, eye contact, etc. and smiling and winking. and she was smiling and laughing throughout. another situation ME: so you coming to my party tonight at my house? HER: i don't think so... well, maybe. who's all going to be there? ME: (smile, wink) well, so far just you and me... HER: (laughing) i have a boyfriend. ME: great! i have a girlfriend. so your boyfriend won't mind. just two friends getting together... HER: you have a girlfriend? so, what's your girlfriend's name? ME what day is today? HER: friday. ME: (smile, wink) well then, my girlfriend's name is Maria... the point is, never let them know if you are being serious or not i love flirting Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by weyes don't ask me; i don't even notice any guys at all when i'm out anymore. i'm too busy spending quality time with my friends or dancing to ever meet anyone. and i barely even notice men - they pretty much all look the same to me at this point (*shrug*). i guess if i do meet a guy again, it'll be because he approached me. It sounds like you're becoming a lesbian. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted February 27 Report Share Posted February 27 Originally posted by ou812 It sounds like you're becoming a lesbian. think whatever makes you happy , sport. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 27 Report Share Posted February 27 Originally posted by tastey Ãt´s not about how you approach, it´s about if you can follow up. you will get away with "woooopediiiidoooodaaa" (trust me i tried ) as opener when you can follow up you gotta be playful playful playful !example:(after some very brief smalltalk, name, etc) HER: so what do you do? ME: (leaning in close to her ear) i give women pleasure - if they desire it... HER: (smiling) uh, i mean for work. what do you do for work? ME: well, i am studying event managemnt. and you? HER: i am studying law at blahblah university and i also work part time at... ME: you know what, (girlsname)? i think i will make you my new girlfriend. HER: uh... what!? ME: yeah, i just decided that you will make a nice girlfriend for me. HER: nice try. i already have a boyfriend. ME: well that's good. it gives you something to do when I am not around... HER: well, i don't think my boyfriend would be happy if i was seeing someone else. ME: i have no response to that. tell you what... i will make you my favorite girlfriend. HER: (laughing) um, are you deaf? i have a boyfriend. ME: i don't understand that last phrase... HER: haha, you don't even know me. ME: (smile, wink) ah yes... but i know what i like. and i am used to winning. HER: not this time... ME: (pout face) no? so tell me, (girlsname), are you my sweetie? (big smile) HER: (laughing) no! go away! ME: do you want to see me again? HER: i can't! boyfriend, remember? ME: that's not what i asked. do you want to see me again? HER: maybe. ME: give me your number. HER: (laughing) no! you are a bad man! ME: how can you be my favorite girlfriend if i don't even have your number? HER: i will give you my cell. i never have it on, but you can leave me a message. Do you have a pen? ME: i will remember it. HER: (smiling) it's xxx-xxxx. i don't even know why I am talking to you. You are bad news. ME: i know why. because you are in love with me. HER: (laughing) hardly. i don't even know you. ME: oh yes you do. what we have between us is age old. we were meant to be lovers. it is in the stars. HER: oh really... ME: of course! i see it in your eyes. you and i will be together. it's just a matter of when. HER: you're bad... this whole conversation was carried out with my arm around her and a "just kidding" attitude. lots of kino, eye contact, etc. and smiling and winking. and she was smiling and laughing throughout. another situation ME: so you coming to my party tonight at my house? HER: i don't think so... well, maybe. who's all going to be there? ME: (smile, wink) well, so far just you and me... HER: (laughing) i have a boyfriend. ME: great! i have a girlfriend. so your boyfriend won't mind. just two friends getting together... HER: you have a girlfriend? so, what's your girlfriend's name? ME what day is today? HER: friday. ME: (smile, wink) well then, my girlfriend's name is Maria... the point is, never let them know if you are being serious or not i love flirting men take note of all that tastey has postedthese are all the things u should not say or do.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted February 27 Report Share Posted February 27 Originally posted by nympho69 men take note of all that tastey has postedthese are all the things u should not say or do.... she´s absolutely right!! don´t listen to me, i´m only full of shit and have no experience whatsoever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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