sgtfury Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 this just happened to a good friend of mine:my buddy met a girl, they started going out. after about 2 weeks, she told him she was on the pill and that she definetely didnt want kids....of course 2 weeks later she turns up pregnant. hes got no money, shes got no money...they have no relationship...but she becomes dead set on having the baby. it begins to seem that she wants the baby just because he trys to tell her its not a good idea...nevertheless, she demands to have the baby. so my buddy trys to make the best of it..he goes into debt to rent a apartment for them..to try to give the baby some sort of normal family. once my buddy and this girl start living together..she is nightmare..he takes 2 jobs because she refuses to work. (keep in mind, they barely know each other) so the baby comes and she continues to refuse to work and my buddy goes further into debt and exaustion from working nearly a 80 hour week. finally, he begs her to get a least a part time job to help pay for the bills...she works for about a week and then decides that its gonna be cheaper for her if she moves back in with her family and that way she doesnt have to work at all..so she grabs the baby and leaves........so..now she has the baby..and wont let my friend see him. my buddy has to get a lawyer...ok 2500 bucks just as a retainer..its now 3 months and the state has yet to determine TEMPORARY custody...in the meantime, becuz she was the first one to grab the baby...he has to pay her money every week. and what he has to pay is based upon his income...hes got a shitload of bills..but the way its set up...it doesnt matter....i think he has to pay her almost 100 bucks a week...he pays for the health insurance and the day care in addition. DOES IT REALLY COST 100 BUCKS A WEEK TO FEED A 9 MONTH OLD BABY???...no it dont...so she doesnt work and pockets the money..hey guys...the systmem ridiculously favors women when it comes to this shit...wear a condum. HAVING CHILDREN IS A PRIVELEDGE NOT A RIGHT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 U r so correct sir.....but i must correct u it does cost more than 100 dollars to support a baby a week.....i know i have 2 small children....If we didnt have kids we'd be livin large....but hey there here and we love em!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!But i must reiterate......wear a condum....or make sure u see her take that little pill, or patch or whatever!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vipnerd Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Originally posted by sgtfury this just happened to a good friend of mine:my buddy met a girl, they started going out. after about 2 weeks, she told him she was on the pill and that she definetely didnt want kids....of course 2 weeks later she turns up pregnant. hes got no money, shes got no money...they have no relationship...but she becomes dead set on having the baby. it begins to seem that she wants the baby just because he trys to tell her its not a good idea...nevertheless, she demands to have the baby. so my buddy trys to make the best of it..he goes into debt to rent a apartment for them..to try to give the baby some sort of normal family. once my buddy and this girl start living together..she is nightmare..he takes 2 jobs because she refuses to work. (keep in mind, they barely know each other) so the baby comes and she continues to refuse to work and my buddy goes further into debt and exaustion from working nearly a 80 hour week. finally, he begs her to get a least a part time job to help pay for the bills...she works for about a week and then decides that its gonna be cheaper for her if she moves back in with her family and that way she doesnt have to work at all..so she grabs the baby and leaves........so..now she has the baby..and wont let my friend see him. my buddy has to get a lawyer...ok 2500 bucks just as a retainer..its now 3 months and the state has yet to determine TEMPORARY custody...in the meantime, becuz she was the first one to grab the baby...he has to pay her money every week. and what he has to pay is based upon his income...hes got a shitload of bills..but the way its set up...it doesnt matter....i think he has to pay her almost 100 bucks a week...he pays for the health insurance and the day care in addition. DOES IT REALLY COST 100 BUCKS A WEEK TO FEED A 9 MONTH OLD BABY???...no it dont...so she doesnt work and pockets the money..hey guys...the systmem ridiculously favors women when it comes to this shit...wear a condum. HAVING CHILDREN IS A PRIVELEDGE NOT A RIGHT :( Don't tell me she's Puertorican Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest saleen351 Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 thats why you should always cum on their faces.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgtfury Posted June 21 Author Report Share Posted June 21 the 100 he pays is just for food...he pays for the medical and day care and they split everything else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spinstar Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 tell him to call 'help me howard' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andrewthomas Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 to be honest a kid is the last thing im worried abouti can live my life with a kid i cant live with a disease..most these slobs here in florida are infestedflorida has one the biggest numbers of STD cases in america Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Originally posted by saleen351 thats why you should always cum on their faces.... why is that what all the boys do to you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lenan Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 normally...i would say it takes two to tango and you should deal with the consequences, BUT in this case your friend got totally fucked! if the bitch told him she was on the pill, (although he should have still wrapped it up since he didn't know her) but she lied to him and he fell for it, like a lot of people who end up having kids with people they don't know. the government is fucked up when it does come to shit like this, and as a girl...personally i don't think the woman should always get the better deal in the situation. shit sometimes i think some women should pay the men. if your friend is a good father and wants to keep the kid, i would tell him to fight for him. maybe the legal system will see the light for once and give the child to the better parent. this makes me so upset. it totally sucks to know that there are people out there who just have children not because they truly want them, but instead because of the money they get. there are too many people out there who are unfortunate and can not have children and there are people who just pop them out like nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitty1977 Posted June 22 Report Share Posted June 22 yeah, that sucks. you're right, everyone should wear a condom for 2 big reasons--1-what happened to your friend could happen to anyoneand 2-miami has one of the highest rates of HIV/AIDS in the nationmakes you think twice about taking home that person from the club Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 yeah, lex had sex one time with this chic and she came back 8 months later knocked up. he does have a beautiful daughter but the mother is a real bitch and is always trying to sabotage the little time they get to spend together. so you better wear those rubbers. and don't forget 18 years of child support to some one you hardly know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lmg Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 damn, i really feel bad for your friend man, he got screwed. But, he didnt even know the girl and he raw dogged it, huge mistake. Ya gotta wrap it up no matter what, bottom line. That story definitely makes you think twice about alot of things. Be careful everyone b/c you never know what can happen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djfrosty Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 He should have worn a rubber in the first place since he only knew her a few weeks. Oh well, that's what pussy will do to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funketeer Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 wear a wetsuit...problem solved! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Between:DiapersWipesFormulaJarred Baby FoodHomemade Baby Food SuppliesFood for the 2 year oldMedicine....because they're constantly sick from 2yr old's Daycare.ClothesDaycareBabysitterWe spend at least $300 PER WEEK. CHILDREN ARE EXPENSIVE. That's why I'm not having anymore!!Aside from the fact that as much as you love them, they still can be pains in the asses.I don't know if this will help your friend...but remind him that at least he doesn't have to take care of the child daily. He will still be able to go out at his leisure and live his life.That "girl" (to be nice) will not. Unless she's a bad mother and doesn't care about the kid, which happens a lot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrmatas2277 Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 not to make light of the situation but.....DO ALL YOUR FRIENDS HAVE BAD LUCK?? every damn story u write about ur friends are bad....maybe they should see a Santero or something...and btw....i ALWAYS WRAP IT!!!! ALWAYS!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Originally posted by mrmatas2277 btw....i ALWAYS WRAP IT!!!! ALWAYS!!!! sounds like your talking about a Christmas present or a piece of candy. :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrmatas2277 Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Originally posted by tranzwhore sounds like your talking about a Christmas present or a piece of candy :eek: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Originally posted by mrmatas2277 :eek: hey, lil' girl i got a present 4 ya! it's a piece of candy with a squirty middle! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Originally posted by tranzwhore hey, lil' girl i got a present 4 ya! it's a piece of candy with a squirty middle! Mmmmm, juicy!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted June 23 Report Share Posted June 23 Originally posted by themrs Mmmmm, juicy!!!! we are some sick chics!!!!!!i think that's why they like us so much! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgtfury Posted June 23 Author Report Share Posted June 23 ha...now that you mention it---its true..my friends have some shitty luck.i guess i try to see other peoples bad situations and hope that we can all learn from it:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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