funeralhome Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 what do you girls do when the sex is really bad.. do you just deal with it, until he's done or like me, tell him "you're tired"...or something else?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 I assume this is an ongoing thing, and not just one lousy roll in the hay. I would talk to him about it. However, subtlety is key. I'd ask him what he enjoys doing most in bed. Then I'd tell him what I like, and I'd try to show him. I'd also take on a dominating role in bed and do it the way I like. I'd restrain his hands, possibly his feet, and I wouldn't let him initiate anything. If he tries, whisper something like, "bay boy", or coyly say "no, no, no", while wagging your finger in his face. Let him see what you like, and hopefully he will get the idea and try to emulate you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funeralhome Posted July 15 Author Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by mala I assume this is an ongoing thing, and not just one lousy roll in the hay. I would talk to him about it. However, subtlety is key. I'd ask him what he enjoys doing most in bed. Then I'd tell him what I like, and I'd try to show him. I'd also take on a dominating role in bed and do it the way I like. I'd restrain his hands, possibly his feet, and I wouldn't let him initiate anything. If he tries, whisper something like, "bay boy", or coyly say "no, no, no", while wagging your finger in his face. Let him see what you like, and hopefully he will get the idea and try to emulate you. LMAO..thanks for the advice, but I'M defintely not having bad sex. If I do, it's very very rare. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 sex can be bad? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by sassa sex can be bad? I know right! Take what you can get. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 A quote from a movie which I've forgotten the name of:"Sex is like pizza. Even when its bad, its good". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by sassa sex can be bad? Ofcourse it can . . . I don't know if you were being sarcastic hun . . . but yea i have had my share of bad sex. . . it could be that the person is inexperienced, nervous or is just fucking you so hard that they don't realize when your shit is sore . . . as for me when sex is bad, I had this one dude I was with who i wanted for like ions, but when we got down and dirty, the mofo could not fuck for the life of him. It was like he was bangin a hole and there was no feeling . . . so my answer was to be like um don't you have to go back home . . . mind you he came from upstate to see me and he had to catch a 6:30 am bus, so around 3:30 i set my clock ahead about 2 hours while in the midst and I told him . . . hey your gonna be late haha that was a simple way to get rid of him . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
euphoricgirl Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 i would tell him straight up......sex is an important part of the relationship.....if you really care for him or her..let them know ....there are tons of books or videos on that stuff... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Anyone who thinks that bad sex is better than no sex... has never had bad sex!!! I'm not really sure how to combat the situation... try to be positive about the whole thing, offer suggestions of things to do rather than telling him what not to do. IDK Sometimes the chemistry just isn't there, and there's not a whole lot you can do about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 i dunno, usually bad sex is with someone where there isnt a lot of chemistry... if i am attracted to someone and they know how to kiss & they turn me on, i know the sex will be good too. the last guy i was seeing didnt turn me on so we never got to the sex but i think if we had had sex it would have been terrible. i guess what i am saying is, you can usually tell before hand if you click with someone or not & if not, dont bother having sex.if i was in the situation of having bad sex, i would say im too tired and stop.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 "...my wife might be home soon...she likes to surprise me while she's away..."...see this phrase is soooo useful.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by phatman "...my wife might be home soon...she likes to surprise me while she's away..."...see this phrase is soooo useful.... The man don't lie; it's proven useful at least twice today!!! :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlipsSOE Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by fierydesire Ofcourse it can . . . I don't know if you were being sarcastic hun . . . but yea i have had my share of bad sex. . . it could be that the person is inexperienced, nervous or is just fucking you so hard that they don't realize when your shit is sore . . . as for me when sex is bad, I had this one dude I was with who i wanted for like ions, but when we got down and dirty, the mofo could not fuck for the life of him. It was like he was bangin a hole and there was no feeling . . . so my answer was to be like um don't you have to go back home . . . mind you he came from upstate to see me and he had to catch a 6:30 am bus, so around 3:30 i set my clock ahead about 2 hours while in the midst and I told him . . . hey your gonna be late haha that was a simple way to get rid of him . . . wow. ur one fucked up girl. thats not very nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by FlipsSOE wow. ur one fucked up girl. thats not very nice. So I guess it would have been better if she had said "you fuck like a spastic; get the fuck out of my bed!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by FlipsSOE wow. ur one fucked up girl. thats not very nice. I'm fucked up please mofo didn't know how to use his member properly so he had to get the boot . . . oh well last time I saw him, hopefully he learned how to fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by mala A quote from a movie which I've forgotten the name of:"Sex is like pizza. Even when its bad, its good". i think that was reality bites or something "threesome"... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by dgmodel i think that was reality bites or something "threesome"... Threesome, that's where it's from. I think it was the Baldwin brother who said it, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FlipsSOE Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by fierydesire I'm fucked up please mofo didn't know how to use his member properly so he had to get the boot . . . oh well last time I saw him, hopefully he learned how to fuck u ever stop to think he was tired?? i mean the guy had come down all the way down from upstate on a bus to come see you. then having to deal with the anxiety and pressures of "first time" sex with a partner. the least you could've done was given him another chance. u obviosuly don't watch sex and the city, do u?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 yeah yeah yeah the ugly stoner one... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Originally posted by FlipsSOE u ever stop to think he was tired?? i mean the guy had come down all the way down from upstate on a bus to come see you. then having to deal with the anxiety and pressures of "first time" sex with a partner. the least you could've done was given him another chance. u obviosuly don't watch sex and the city, do u?? nope I dont actually and well as for him, he was def not tired, he was going at like like a freakin rabbit . . . he just can't FUCK is that so hard to understand Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 ...wait...are you saying he couldnt FUCK?... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 like he had no skills, it's not a hole in the wall . . . and I did not wanna teach him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 ...how bout me?...wanna teach me?... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 shouldn't you know how unless you really want me to be your mentor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 ...ok...so i do...i just need refresher courses... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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