nynyny Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Originally posted by tastyt If you have the maturity to realize that some things are more important than fucking, and the ability to transcend your immediate impulses... the sex of your friends is unimportant. to alot of grown people, FUCKING- is the most enjoyable thing in the world.what about all the people forced to work 9-5 all week at miserable jobs just so they can make money to get by? nothing feeels better to these people then to be able to have sex with someone they share feelings with.. UNLESS your some pimp superstar that can jump on planes and fuck 10 bitches in the vip lounge in some other city every night of the week--->you have to get ahold of reality.none is perfect..and most are of average inteeligence...but they are STILL people...even if they dont know why they cant transcend their immediate impulses..people are not robots(like someone else said) programmed to act only a certain way...think about all the people that had babies when they were 20 yars old...in my opinion they fucked up....but theere life has changed....and now they live for there childrensex is not a joke....it is a bond... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NOT IN USE Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 how about this..to each his own...you shouldnt put down people cause they believe in different things???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 FYI - me & Lex were friends with benefits for many years and that has lead us towards the marriage path! so be prepared to possibly fall in love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Wish I could find a friend w/ benefits Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrzyC Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 Originally posted by sobeton once you hook up, it's no longer a friendship. there are going to be emotions that develop. as much the emotions may seem suppressed, they are there always lingering in the background. I have been in this situation a few times and from my experience I have always been the one to end it b/c I developed feelings that I knew would eventually ruin the friendship. As long as everybody knows the rules and doesnt expect too much and is adult ennough to talk through anything and everything without holding it against each other all should work out. I have yet to loose a friendship over this. Good luck to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted September 15 Report Share Posted September 15 where can i go to find these friends with benefits????is there a catalog or something!?!?!?!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NOT IN USE Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 hehe....dunno, they just appear... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrzyC Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa where can i go to find these friends with benefits????is there a catalog or something!?!?!?!? ahem...married friends with benefits usually leads to drama...lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mursa Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Too many Friends with benefits also leads to drama . One is enough . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrzyC Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by mursa Too many Friends with benefits also leads to drama . One is enough . Tru dat! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nynyny Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa where can i go to find these friends with benefits???? ON THE INTERNET !i will admit that half the girls i've banged i found on the internet ! if you want to meet someone crazy with alot of serious problems..go for internet girls !but alas...... i am getting old and need a nice italian girl to take care of me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by CrzyC ahem...married friends with benefits usually leads to drama...lol. crazy???????me .............. drama..................... naaaawwwwwwwu know me better than that...im not dramatic...u should know!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 lol nynyny is rite, u'd be amazed at how easy it is to find psycho women on the internet who just wanna get laid lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrzyC Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa crazy???????me .............. drama..................... naaaawwwwwwwu know me better than that...im not dramatic...u should know!!!!!!! Trust me, I know you are not dramatic. I didnt mean that in a personal way but more of a general comment. You know us girls can get dramatic sometimes, thats why I always know when to "pull out" unlike some men...lol.Im still thinking about your "we could make your life so much better comment". Much love to both of you!BTW...any good games this week? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pod Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Whatever floats your boat...if you wanna just fuck, fine with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
francismhwhite Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I agree with bodii but somes times it seems innocent Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max3 Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 It's a chemical thing.....and just sso long as you both know what your getting into from the get go...clear communication....mutual underastanding there...then no prob.might depend on who u r too....not everyone may be able to handle this type of set up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flavanugz Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 the worst is having a serious relationship, breaking up, and then still fucking all the time......thats when shit gets real weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by nynyny to alot of grown people, FUCKING- is the most enjoyable thing in the world.what about all the people forced to work 9-5 all week at miserable jobs just so they can make money to get by? nothing feeels better to these people then to be able to have sex with someone they share feelings with.. Yeah, but we're not talking about sex with someone you share feelings with... we're not talking about a relationship... we're talking about friends with benefits... IE, a situation in which neither of you is "supposed" to develop feelings.Originally posted by nynyny none is perfect..and most are of average inteeligence...but they are STILL people...even if they dont know why they cant transcend their immediate impulses..people are not robots(like someone else said) programmed to act only a certain way... No, we're not robots- in the sense that we can't control who we develop romantic attachments to... but we are 100% in control of who we decide to sleep with. Any assertion to the contrary is a total cop-out ("it just happened"... no, these things don't just happen, lol, it doesn't just slip in without your having anything to do with it).Originally posted by nynyny think about all the people that had babies when they were 20 yars old...in my opinion they fucked up....but theere life has changed....and now they live for there childrensex is not a joke....it is a bond... :confused: How does that first paragraph relate to the topic at hand? And where did I say that sex was a joke??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 I didnt even read through all the posts, just the topic. BUT I dont get what the issue is. I have allot of friends with benefits.I have a comprehensive HMO plan with RX, vision, hospitalization etc. I also have a full dental plan.same for my girl"friend"....does that make us special? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NOT IN USE Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 italian girls are the best, trust me!!!!!Originally posted by nynyny ON THE INTERNET !i will admit that half the girls i've banged i found on the internet ! if you want to meet someone crazy with alot of serious problems..go for internet girls !but alas...... i am getting old and need a nice italian girl to take care of me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grandoompa Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 just like any agreement, cover your ass! lol. here's a pre-booty call agreement for both parties to sign. you can modify it, but both should initial the changes. lol. you can download the word document at the bottom of that page. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrzyC Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by grandoompa just like any agreement, cover your ass! lol. here's a pre-booty call agreement for both parties to sign. you can modify it, but both should initial the changes. lol. you can download the word document at the bottom of that page. This is too funny!!!! Thank you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majinbuu Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 Originally posted by max3 .....and just so long as you both know what your getting into from the get go...clear communication....mutual understanding there...then no prob. i agree...if you fool yourself into thinking it is more than just sex, you wont be able to deal with it when you try to make the relationship more than sex...have some fun, and remember...you can do what ever you want. if you are just "sex buddies" you probably arent his/her only one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted September 16 Report Share Posted September 16 POINT# 1.guys and girls can easily be friends...my 2 best friends are guys one i know for 8 years, am good friends with his girlfriend and i know he would do anything for me and vice versa...the other one i know for 3 years and we talk about everything.......i know al his sexual conquests and he knows mine and there is no sexual tension.POINT# 2.well not really a "point" more like a question but whatever.....last nite i had a conversation with a good friend of mine about being friends with benefits and it was the most ridiculous conversation i've ever had....very long and confusing..........we both don't necessarily want a relationship yet we dont the other one to have sex with anyone else........in the end i was the one who couldn't go through with it b/c if i do have sex with someone i want it to be with someone im in a relationship with...........however when i was thinking about it today i thought that maybe i should do it, b/c like i said before i dont want a relationship right now so it would be stupid of me to stick to that rule..............any advice?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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