how to destroy a relationship

[tastey]

a friend of mine sent me that per mail...

beware though, this is some fucked up stuff... fascinating non the less though!

from what i know from studying psychology this CAN work. very likely it WILL work. following this back to a basic and wellknown experiment, you could compare it with pavlov´s dogs. its the same principle...

even though it sounds fascinating, i´m reluctant to try it out, i don´t like fucking up people´s lifes. however there may even be positive application, abusive boyfriends for example, but you´d have to adjust here... i have to think about that...

its wack and very interesting stuff... check it out...

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I must first admit that this technique is borderline EVIL. I designed it two

years ago... and have only had the heart to use it twice. Used it sparingly...

for IT WILL totally obiliterate a relationship, no matter how strong!

The Forced Wedge (Autonomous Repetitive Negative Anchor)

HISTORY (Skip to STAGE ALPHA if you have a short attention span.)

One of my favorite shows, when it was on the air, was La Femme Nikita.

Although it wasn't as interesting as the movie, something about female

assassins has always catches my fancy. As the show evolved over the last five

years, the relationship between Nikita & Michael (her male counter-part)

developed into a romance. The organization that they were forced to work for

was not too keen on operatives dating each other. In fact, Section rules

strictly forbid any type of in house liaisons. In addition, once the Section

commanders fully realized that the two operatives were essentially together

they used every underhanded method to destroy the relationship. One of the

techniques used was the Forced Wedge.

STAGE DELTA: the HYPOTHESIS

If an anchor could aid a woman's unconscious mind in bind a woman to me,

draw her closer, preoccupy her thoughts of me, THEN why could I used a

Negative Anchor to destroy her relationship with her boyfriend, fuck buddy,

husband, etc. It should work the same right?!

Almost, the key was Autonomous Repetition.

Linking bad feeling of her significant other to a Negative Anchor would only be

useful if I was there to fire it. Once she left my side, the Negative Anchor

would not be useful any more, UNLESS she would unknowingly keep firing the

Negative Anchor for me!

All I needed was a trigger/cue that she would HAVE to or COMPULSIVELY would

utilize on a frequent basis. Like the act of touching a set of keys, steering

wheel of her car, pack of her cigarettes, her favorite Teddy Bear which she

curls up to every night, etc.

So if I liked the Negative Anchor to one of these objects that she routinely

uses, she would be automatically reminded of negative feelings about her

significant other.

STAGE BETA: the TEST

I'm a personal believer in the maxim, 'Don't tell me it should work, SHOW

ME!' SO, I set out to test my new technique on two women who were very

different, yet were in a relationship of over two years in duration. I'd known

each since the conception of their relationship. Neither was at the point of

dismay with their boyfriend. Both boyfriends, whom I had casually know for

over a year, were very please with status of their relationship. For clinical

reason, I began the Negative Anchor Experiment on the same day for both HB 1 &

2.

HB 1 (whom I had know for three years) was a Doorgirl at a local club where I

worked. Every Friday and Saturday night she preformed one mind numbingly

repetitive task all night long, she HAD to press the $10 key on the Door

Register before admitting guest into the club. I started the night by asking

how her man was, of course she rattled on for a few minutes. Then I said I

could remember how nice it was to be in a relationship, BUT it also comes with

its downside like, blah-blah-blah. It didn't take two second before she was

spouting of this weeks laundry list of 'Things HE did to Piss Me Off!' When

she highlighted one of his atrocities, I ramped up her emotional state into a

near rage then I would ?accidentially? hit the $10 key which would 'BEEP'

sharply. We took a long trip down this road of nearly fifteen minutes. By the

time I was finished, she was furious with him. That night when he came to pick

her up, they got into a huge and volatile fight.

In less that four weekend nights (e.g, two weeks) they were finished! It has

been a year, and she can barely stand to be in the same room with him. When I

quizzed her about their break up she said, "I still can't figure out why I

can't stand him anymore. It wasn't like he did any one specific thing wrong."

HB 2 (whom I had know for two years) was a more of a challenge since her man

was a successful Doctor who she was madly in love with. Although she is a

Regionally Sought after Model, she felt extremely luck to be with HIM!

Essentially, when he said jump, she would reply, "How High, How Many Times,

Was that High Enough, etc." She was a hard target to say the least.

I met HB2 earlier on in the evening before going to work at the club and Forced

Wedging HB1. Since HB 2 was a habitual chain smoker, I choose to link the

Autonomous Repetitive Negative Anchor to her preferred brand of Cancer Sticks

using the same MO I used on HB 1.

With in 24 hours they were on the Outs, three days after that, she

officially Broke-Up with God's Gift to women. She voice similar issues as HB

1, "I'd don't know exact what did it. It wasn't like he did something wrong

or cheated on me, I just lost interest and felt I deserve more."

STAGE ALPHA: The Forced Wedge Technique (Autonomous Repetitive Negative Anchor)

1. Choose the trigger: the item that she has to or chooses to interact

with on a regular basis. Car Keys, Cigarettes, Lighter, Eye Glasses, Lipstick,

Purse, etc.

2. Lead her onto the subject of 'Things that My Boyfriend Does or Has Done

to Piss Me Off!'

3. On each bad thing, help her magnify the feeling by saying, "Boy, that

must have really pissed you off!" "If I were you, I would have killed HIM!"

"Aren't you STILL ANGRY!" etc. Each time she hit the apex of anger, touch the

Negative Anchor.

4. Repeat steps 2 & 3 until you have a good dozen or so Negative emotions

linked to the Negative Anchor.

5. Lastly, sit back and wait. It may take a few hours or days, but her

Boyfriend is Wedged. The more time passes, the larger the wedge/divide will

grow.

[Felix_Leiter]

bullshit....

[highmay]

this would work if the girl is stupid...

[anotherway83]

heh i read a story sumwhere abt a guy who was so tired of his GF and wanted an excuse to dump her, but he couldnt find a good excuse...so he did sumthing to get her mad, then sent his best friend over to have sex with her cos he knew she'd do it, thinking it was a way to get back at him, and then called her up the next day and said 'u bitch, u cheated on me, its over now' lol

[ninadd]

I cant believe I just wasted 5 minutes of my life reading this stupid theory

[dgmodel]

Originally posted by smokesum

bullshit....

no it isnt... itll work...

[Felix_Leiter]

Originally posted by dgmodel

no it isnt... itll work...

...for stupid girls....unfortuneatly I don't go for stupid girls

[dgmodel]

for anyone actually... not just women... same with how a pleasant scent of perfume can warm you inside or stimulate memories because maybe when you were with a person who had it on you always had a good time, and the like... blah blah blah who cares not like anyones going to do it, however it will work...

[Felix_Leiter]

Originally posted by dgmodel

for anyone actually... not just women... same with how a pleasant scent of perfume can warm you inside or stimulate memories because maybe when you were with a person who had it on you always had a good time, and the like... blah blah blah who cares not like anyones going to do it, however it will work...

i regretfully disagree....it will not work for everyone

[dgmodel]

thats fine... who cares really??? its not like any of us will try it... but if someone does, post about it so we can find out...

[tastey]

dgmodel is right, it basically works for everyone.

you cannot fight this, it´s a natural automatism system.

just like people who almost drowned are instantly afraid when they see water. its the same thing. you anchored negative emotions with a certain image. or a certain tone ("i can´t stand that ringtone, my stupid ass ex always had that"). or a certain smell (perfumes like dg said).

for those that are interested, there are several "places" where these anchors can be planted:

1. auditory, but not linguistic (sighs, laughter, music, breathing, noises, anything that can be heard)

2. visual (color, expression, posture, size... anything that can be seen)

3. kinesthetic -external (touch, temp, movement, vibration... anything that can be felt ouside)

4. kinesthetic -internal (feelings, emotions, physical internal sensations... anything that can be felt inside)

5. olfactory (smells)

6. gustatory (tastes)

7. auditory digital (data, information, carried in numbers, written and auditory language... anything that requires language skills)

[Felix_Leiter]

if a person truly loves someone..that love cannot be broken...regardless of the mind games you play

[tastey]

Originally posted by smokesum

if a person truly loves someone..that love cannot be broken...regardless of the mind games you play

heh, dude. what do you think "love" is? how do you think it is created?

do you think GOD came down and gave you "love"?

"love" is a feeling you get when the other person triggers enough of the right buttons. these "buttons" define themselves through your past experience and your past and present values.

if the person constantly presses the right buttons in you, you feel "in love". that can last very long. of course there are not ONLY the righ buttons being pressed, but the majority of buttons that are pressed are right.

now, what would happen if an "anchor" would be able to constantly change your focus. and put the spotlight from the positive buttons to the negatives?

[Felix_Leiter]

Originally posted by tastey

heh, dude. what do you think "love" is? how do you think it is created?

do you think GOD came down and gave you "love"?

"love" is a feeling you get when the other person triggers enough of the right buttons. these "buttons" define themselves through your past experience and your past and present values.

if the person constantly presses the right buttons in you, you feel "in love". that can last very long. of course there are not ONLY the righ buttons being pressed, but the majority of buttons that are pressed are right.

now, what would happen if an "anchor" would be able to constantly change your focus. and put the spotlight from the positive buttons to the negatives?

sorry maybe im too simple for some people on here....but you cannot define love

[tastey]

Originally posted by smokesum

sorry maybe im too simple for some people on here....but you cannot define love

you can´t define what it feels like, how it is created though, you can

i suggest you do some reading on psychology

of course some might rather just live it and not understand it, which is okay too. personally i find this very interesting and it challenges my intellect (gotta love a good challenge).

[Felix_Leiter]

Originally posted by tastey

you can´t define what it feels like, how it is created though, you can

i suggest you do some reading on psychology

of course some might rather just live it and not understand it, which is okay too. personally i find this very interesting and it challenges my intellect (gotta love a good challenge).

thats where we go wrong..im one of the few that choose to live it and not understand it...maybe thats why I doubt this theory on breakin up relationships....i know how to play mind games..and if a girl is truly madly deeply in love with someone...this theory will fall flat..nothing can break that bond the two people have as long as it it real

[shroomy]

lol.... I can't believe people believe this shit.

It’s the typical example of taking a valid bit of psycho babble trivia and extrapolating it to ridiculous extremes.

If it were that easy, every psychologist in the world would be fucking models, since the opposite should work too.

And if you can turn someone off to a guy they love, you can turn them off to overeating, drugs etc.... give that a try.

Now if you could get him to smack her every time she has a cigarette for a week or two you may have something.

A person having a traumatic experience like almost drowning and being afraid or water isn’t in the same ballpark as having a cigarette while some dipshit brings up negative things about her boyfriend.

[Felix_Leiter]

Originally posted by shroomy

lol.... I can't believe people believe this shit.

It’s the typical example of taking a valid bit of psycho babble trivia and extrapolating it to ridiculous extremes.

If it were that easy, every psychologist in the world would be fucking models, since the opposite should work too.

And if you can turn someone off to a guy they love, you can turn them off to overeating, drugs etc.... give that a try.

Now if you could get him to smack her every time she has a cigarette for a week or two you may have something.

A person having a traumatic experience like almost drowning and being afraid or water isn’t in the same ballpark as having a cigarette while some dipshit brings up negative things about her boyfriend.

thank you

[dgmodel]

Originally posted by shroomy

And if you can turn someone off to a guy they love, you can turn them off to overeating, drugs etc.... give that a try.

they already do that...

[Felix_Leiter]

Originally posted by dgmodel

they already do that...

but if they worked..i would assume this so called therapy would be more popular and there would be a lot less slobs in this world...but the opposite is occurring...more and more people are becoming obese

..im not sayin this so called psychology doesnt work on some people...but to say it is fool proof is pretty ignorant

[Felix_Leiter]

and that will be my last note for the evening...

[dgmodel]

Originally posted by smokesum

sorry maybe im too simple for some people on here....but you cannot define love

agreed... there arent any words that could possibly describe the feelings, the emotions, the thoughts, the bond, etc... you can try but all words will fall short of a true definition... and more importantly love is something different to each and everyone one to have a standard definition is impossible...

[naughtybabe]

Originally posted by shroomy

lol.... I can't believe people believe this shit.

It’s the typical example of taking a valid bit of psycho babble trivia and extrapolating it to ridiculous extremes.

If it were that easy, every psychologist in the world would be fucking models, since the opposite should work too.

And if you can turn someone off to a guy they love, you can turn them off to overeating, drugs etc.... give that a try.

Now if you could get him to smack her every time she has a cigarette for a week or two you may have something.

A person having a traumatic experience like almost drowning and being afraid or water isn’t in the same ballpark as having a cigarette while some dipshit brings up negative things about her boyfriend.

I agree with you...

Thank you for not making this thread a total waste of my time

[dgmodel]

lol cp is a waste of time...

[naughtybabe]

That is very true...