pookie23 Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 God I fucking hate when women say that! :mad: :blown: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 don't forget the "but let's just be friends" part!ouch! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 15 Author Report Share Posted October 15 I know...I hear that shit all the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majinbuu Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 translation - we aint fucking! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 That does suck, but you rather they tell you that you suck and they hate your guts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 15 Author Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by tastyt That does suck, but you rather they tell you that you suck and they hate your guts? I don't know anymore...seriously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by spragga25 I don't know anymore...seriously Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by spragga25 I don't know anymore...seriously fukem man the one positive thing i learned from tastey (garfield from germany) is that it's HER loss. She aint' gettin no nipple game...she ain't gettin no raggaso it's her loss. Count your winnings and move on.And who knows... just by you shoving off may make her wonder.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majinbuu Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by tastyt That does suck, but you rather they tell you that you suck and they hate your guts? hell yeah! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 15 Author Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by gmccookny fukem man the one positive thing i learned from tastey (garfield from germany) is that it's HER loss. She aint' gettin no nipple game...she ain't gettin no raggaso it's her loss. Count your winnings and move on.And who knows... just by you shoving off may make her wonder.... I hear ya man...but it's been a recurring theme with me and women for the past 6-7 months now.There are no winnings to count unfortunately, and now I'm getting sick and tired of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by spragga25 I hear ya man...but it's been a recurring theme with me and women for the past 6-7 months now.There are no winnings to count unfortunately, and now I'm getting sick and tired of it. Well then it's time for Scores night out then, mang:cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 15 Author Report Share Posted October 15 If I had the cash...I'd do it in a sec! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 i think u're waiting too long before asking them out...it looks like u're trying to get to know them and stuff...but know this...if u spend too much time just talking and not making a move asking her out...she'll LJBF you...u've gotta move fast...LJBF==Lets Just Be Friends... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Originally posted by anotherway83 i think u're waiting too long before asking them out...it looks like u're trying to get to know them and stuff...but know this...if u spend too much time just talking and not making a move asking her out...she'll LJBF you...u've gotta move fast...LJBF==Lets Just Be Friends... It sounds as if they were already friends before Ragga started looking at them in a different light... but I could be wrong...ButI do agree that making the leap from friendship to... something else... is very tricky, and for a variety of reasons, not usually successful... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 Very Simple Words Adam:...Darlin...I haven't got time for the pain... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling Posted October 15 Report Share Posted October 15 weve all heard the great friend thing ive heard it one too many times myself but its ok better having friends then being alone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by Bling weve all heard the great friend thing ive heard it one too many times myself but its ok better having friends then being alone ...I used to say that alot, but I really don't know nowadays... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 there is at least 1 advantage of being LJBFed by a hot girl...u can use her as social proof...when women see a guy with a hot girl, making her laugh and being confident...it boosts the guy's image in their eyes a great deal Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 16 Author Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by phuturephunk Very Simple Words Adam:...Darlin...I haven't got time for the pain... The pain gets numbed after awhile....now it starts to turn into anger and resentment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by spragga25 The pain gets numbed after awhile....now it starts to turn into anger and resentment. I feel for ya.. but those two sentiments will drive them away even faster.. This is the winter of Spragga!!! Do the opposite of everything you're inclined to do... maybe the opposite will happen? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by tastyt That does suck, but you rather they tell you that you suck and they hate your guts? THEYRE BASICALLY THE SAME THING Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 16 Author Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by upjumpdaboogie I feel for ya.. but those two sentiments will drive them away even faster.. This is the winter of Spragga!!! Do the opposite of everything you're inclined to do... maybe the opposite will happen? Nah...won't work...my luck is terrible Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by spragga25 Nah...won't work...my luck is terrible I know you don't want to hear it, but that's gonna help either.You need to own the room. Be the room. All eyes on you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted October 16 Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by phuturephunk Very Simple Words Adam:...Darlin...I haven't got time for the pain... heh, spragga i don´t think you get the meaning i read from this quote. talk with women about their problems=LJBFtalk/whine with women about your problems=LJBFand yes, it is their loss that she doesn´t get you, cause *every single* human has a lot to offer.BUT, even if it is her loss in the end, it is your inability to convey your *value* and *sexuality* (especially the last part is a BIG part of their problem for most guys in your situation (LJBF-land)) that LEADS her to make the wrong decision.you definately have the conveying value part down, you seem to have female friends that value your friendship. what you have to focus on now is conveying your sexuality.how do you convey your sexuality... jeeez this is a long long long topic...i will only highlight some things here that are basic:-let her know your intentions early. this can be as simple as saying "i like you and i´d like to get to know you to see if we´re combatible". this is only *one* simple small sentence but it makes ALL the difference. it changes the WHOLE dynamic. it says "i´m on the market. i´m the prize and i´m considering if you´re someone that i´d like to spend time with". it is a challenge to women, AND you set the right dynamic (two sexual and emotional beings searching for a partner). -touch- touch the girls. do not force it, do what you feel like doing in the moment. don´t hold back because you think it wouldn´t be appropriate or some other limiting belief that was hammered into you from society´s fucked up rules. follow your gut instinct, it is right most of the time. do what you want, when you want. *do not apologize for going for what you want and feel like in the moment*-flirting and teasing. *that* is sexual communication. play with your sexuality, make playful hints about you two being together, or playfully say things like "we´d never hit it off" with a wink. "we´d never be combatible sexually, you´re SUCH a freak ! i´m more like cuddling and stuff, and YOU? all into SM and stuff!! no way!! ;)" with a wink. make blatant playful guesses about her and accuse her of them. FLIRT.-make her work for your affection. for starters, say things like "too bad, you just lost a point ;)" if she does or says something you don´t approve of. and say "i really like that in a partner, this will make up for your other "bad" decision" if she does or says something you DO approve of.read this again and again, hopefully (for you) you´ll get it and actually take the advice and actually CHANGE something. instead of just whining about your problems. whining doesn´t solve anything. assessing the problem and working on it does.comments welcome!cheers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 16 Author Report Share Posted October 16 Originally posted by tastey heh, spragga i don´t think you get the meaning i read from this quote. talk with women about their problems=LJBFtalk/whine with women about your problems=LJBFand yes, it is their loss that she doesn´t get you, cause *every single* human has a lot to offer.BUT, even if it is her loss in the end, it is your inability to convey your *value* and *sexuality* (especially the last part is a BIG part of their problem for most guys in your situation (LJBF-land)) that LEADS her to make the wrong decision.you definately have the conveying value part down, you seem to have female friends that value your friendship. what you have to focus on now is conveying your sexuality.how do you convey your sexuality... jeeez this is a long long long topic...i will only highlight some things here that are basic:-let her know your intentions early. this can be as simple as saying "i like you and i´d like to get to know you to see if we´re combatible". this is only *one* simple small sentence but it makes ALL the difference. it changes the WHOLE dynamic. it says "i´m on the market. i´m the prize and i´m considering if you´re someone that i´d like to spend time with". it is a challenge to women, AND you set the right dynamic (two sexual and emotional beings searching for a partner). -touch- touch the girls. do not force it, do what you feel like doing in the moment. don´t hold back because you think it wouldn´t be appropriate or some other limiting belief that was hammered into you from society´s fucked up rules. follow your gut instinct, it is right most of the time. do what you want, when you want. *do not apologize for going for what you want and feel like in the moment*-flirting and teasing. *that* is sexual communication. play with your sexuality, make playful hints about you two being together, or playfully say things like "we´d never hit it off" with a wink. "we´d never be combatible sexually, you´re SUCH a freak ! i´m more like cuddling and stuff, and YOU? all into SM and stuff!! no way!! ;)" with a wink. make blatant playful guesses about her and accuse her of them. FLIRT.-make her work for your affection. for starters, say things like "too bad, you just lost a point ;)" if she does or says something you don´t approve of. and say "i really like that in a partner, this will make up for your other "bad" decision" if she does or says something you DO approve of.read this again and again, hopefully (for you) you´ll get it and actually take the advice and actually CHANGE something. instead of just whining about your problems. whining doesn´t solve anything. assessing the problem and working on it does.comments welcome!cheers Since you don't personally know me, I won't make a comment Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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