iamme Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 an X and had a long/meaningfull/lasting relationship? or did the same/new issues resurface? is it not worth it? can you really trust that person again once theyve hurt you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 ...cant say that i have...i seem to have a knack at completely destroying the relationship so that nothing is ever salvageable...lol...i did have sex once with an ex that stalked me for a bit just to get her to leave me alone...it was pretty sad...lol...but it worked......i'm not a big believer in getting back together...ofcourse it's variant according to what exactly transpired...there are certain lines that once you've crossed, there is no going back...things are usually marred forever - and though you may think things are ok after you have rebuilt the relationship - it is but a mere illusion, and one small act or notion can send everything tumbling back down again...i have seen people work it out and somehow find renewed strength in their relationship...but that is far and few from what i have seen... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamme Posted November 28 Author Report Share Posted November 28 mine just END...not messy or anything...just all communication cut off. they might as well never exist except in my mind kind of thing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 Originally posted by iamme mine just END...not messy or anything...just all communication cut off. they might as well never exist except in my mind kind of thing... i tried to work it out w/ my ex but it didnt last long, their an ex for a reason....we then stayed as friends but that didnt work for long so now we just dont talk to eachother Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magilicuti Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 i sorta have, its bad news. stay away. all my friends that have done it has ended up just wasting their time as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 I'd love to think that with all the communication, compromise and consideration in the world, my ex & I woulda/coulda/shoulda worked it out, but there's usually something fundamentally wrong when it doesn't work and if it isn't addressed soon, it festers. There are absolutely no absolutes, but more often than not it'll snowball out of control. It takes two extraordinary {or naive} people to make a troubled relationship work. I'm in no posotion to advise anyone on the subject; being a victim myself.sometimes your loyalty and determination can be your own achilles. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 I got back with an ex, but it didn't work out. It was ok for a while, but the same issues came up. Part of me is still in love with him, and I know he feels the same, but it will never work between us. Sometimes letting go is the hardest thing to do, even though it must be done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 kinda, but she wasn't a serious ex to begin with but eventually we hooked up again and lasted almost 4 years so yah that was cool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumpdaddy Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 heh...did it twice....same girl...once with another....my problem is i'm pretty much freindly with alot of girls i've dated....only had 1 really fucked up breakup....my fault totally....I find it doesn't work tho....I have "commitment issues" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 Yes and Yes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 nope. never works out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 Originally posted by iamme an X and had a long/meaningfull/lasting relationship? or did the same/new issues resurface? is it not worth it? can you really trust that person again once theyve hurt you? Did it once.......... baaaaaaaad idea !! Its like re-living a nightmare.For sum reason people tend to think they can overcome what broke 'em up...till..... when the first argument comes up....and then you realize the person is actually repulsive But hey, love is blind,..right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thrillfire Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 i got back together with my ex after being broken up for a week. and we're still together...but i don't think you meant this short of a time span.and he also did A LOT of expensive demage control for breaking up with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 no...i kill my gf's after we break up so their is no chance of getting back together... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 Originally posted by fkornre no...i kill my gf's after we break up so their is no chance of getting back together... do u @ least burry them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 bury them:confused: no need for that...i dump the bodies in the ocean...much cleaner and less chance of getting caught... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 Originally posted by fkornre bury them:confused: no need for that...i dump the bodies in the ocean...much cleaner and less chance of getting caught... very schmart Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgrlnyc Posted November 30 Report Share Posted November 30 never...actually i never even remained friends with any of them...I cut all ties...i did feel bad @ the time...but "out of sight, out of mind" is very true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted November 30 Report Share Posted November 30 yes i've gotten back with them after we broke upstayed friends with most of thembest friend with one of them:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eurolisa Posted November 30 Report Share Posted November 30 ya i got back with my ex and actually our relationship was better than ever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
housedog Posted November 30 Report Share Posted November 30 I am in a similar situation. I went out with this girl for like 1o months. She broke up woth me cause I like to smoke. Anyway as soon as we break up she starts seeing a friend, a girl. That goes for like a year and they break up. I get back into it with her and all of sudden she meets another girl and starts to hang with her more and more. So we break up again, now she tells me she is done with girls and wants to go back to guys. Now she is calling me to hang out and shit. Now I must decide if I want to go back to this or keep away. Shit I am Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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