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mursa

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What I wish women knew:

- how you carry yourself influences how i perceive you

- Just because i think you're hot doesn't preclude me from liking your personality

- The amount a guy likes a girl is not inversely proportional to the amount of time before they have sex; it is directly proportional to how much the guy likes the girl. If you respect yourself the morning after, chances are we will as well

- there is more than one way to suck a dick

- there are a multitude of degrees of sexual contact besides intercourse that are fun, relatively safe, and pretty guilt-free

- if a guy doesn't call as soon as you'd like, call him yourself

- if you want a guy to talk to you, go up to him and say anything; he will probably respond kindly

- don't go out dressing hot just to tease; it brings you ill will and bad karma

- please respect a sort of mourning period after a break-up where you do not sleep with your ex's friends.

- not everybody is looking at you / talking about you. they are carrying on in their normal lives thinking normal thoughts.

- spend less time analyzing, more time being

- touch us, we like to be touched

- if we're being shy, it's because we're letting you to set the pace. we'd set it, but we want you to feel comfortable.

- understand when we approach you, we are burdened with the risk of rejection

- your best friends don't always have your best interests in mind; some are conniving and back-stabbing

- give us the benefit of the doubt; we know more than we let on

- don't assume that if we find ourselves alone in a room that we'll strive to take your clothes off.

- we like to be seduced to. try it, you might like the rush of being the hunter.

- sex is not a commodity you trade for something. it's something you do because you want to.

- don't always second-guess yourself; don't let others make decisions for you

- if you seek out jerks, don't complain about not having a nice guy sometimes you gotta pick one or the other.

- a period of silence does not imply a Cold War is taking place. people are just unavailable sometimes to communicate, don't take it personally.

- grudges destroy relationships. nip them in the bud.

- if you have something to get off your chest, say it directly, don't beat around the bush.

Carry on......:)

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Originally posted by mursa

...- spend less time analyzing, more time being...

and, for your part, take responsibility for your actions. don't say we're "overanalyzing" when we're just holding you responsible for the things you do and say that hurt us.
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Originally posted by mursa

What I wish women knew:

- please respect a sort of mourning period after a break-up where you do not sleep with your ex's friends.

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Carry on......:)

not all women do this.. only women with low self esteem , that are usually way over weight or not happy & comfortable with themselves :D

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one of the reasons older women are cool:

- The amount a guy likes a girl is not inversely proportional to the amount of time before they have sex; it is directly proportional to how much the guy likes the girl. If you respect yourself the morning after, chances are we will as well

they can seperate sex from emotions and keep things in perspective without being labeled sluts

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