Destiny Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 the parents???So who has been really really close with their sig others' parents, then you break up with your sig other, and wonder how to act toward their parents when you see/talk to them.My ex's parents still call me, and I have no idea how to act. Their son and I broke up quite some time ago...My friend is still close with her ex's mother, and she just said its fine, but I feel a little awkward about it.Any suggestions?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
druwishprincez Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 well if it makes you umcomfortable to talk to them then dont, but if youd like to continue your relationship with them, then eventually the awkwardness will go away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by Destiny the parents???So who has been really really close with their sig others' parents, then you break up with your sig other, and wonder how to act toward their parents when you see/talk to them.My ex's parents still call me, and I have no idea how to act. Their son and I broke up quite some time ago...My friend is still close with her ex's mother, and she just said its fine, but I feel a little awkward about it.Any suggestions?? I was close w/ my ex's family....but after we broke up i basically cut ties w/ his family too (His sister & I were good friends)......But if I happen to see them out somewhere....I always make sure I say hello Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 the parents are part of the package deal, dump her, dump them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere444 Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by Destiny the parents???So who has been really really close with their sig others' parents, then you break up with your sig other, and wonder how to act toward their parents when you see/talk to them.My ex's parents still call me, and I have no idea how to act. Their son and I broke up quite some time ago...My friend is still close with her ex's mother, and she just said its fine, but I feel a little awkward about it.Any suggestions?? tell them i am your destiny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted February 2 Author Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by notallthere444 tell them i am your destiny how did i guess you were going to put something like that??I'll make sure to give them the message:aright: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thrillfire Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 i was friends with my ex's parents as were my parents but the ties were cut recently after 6 year friendship when they came over uninvited and met my current bf. It was very wierd. They still had hopes for their son and i to get back together.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by bullseye the parents are part of the package deal, dump her, dump them. yep, but in my case it was diff i stayed friends w/ my ex.....didnt really get along w/ his mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere444 Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by nybeauty yep, but in my case it was diff i stayed friends w/ my ex.....didnt really get along w/ his mom i used to bang his mom......it was weird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by notallthere444 i used to bang his mom......it was weird Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by nybeauty yep, but in my case it was diff i stayed friends w/ my ex.....didnt really get along w/ his mom did you ever get along with the mom? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by bullseye did you ever get along with the mom? yea but i always knew she didnt like me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by nybeauty yea but i always knew she didnt like me awww, damn b*tchi dated a beautiful black girl the year i got out of high school, and i also worked for her dad before we started datin. then about month after we started datin, kinda in secret, he found out. he fired me and forbid from ever seein his daughter again in anyway. sucked, but she loved her father to much to disappoint him. i never saw her again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thrillfire Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Originally posted by nybeauty yea but i always knew she didnt like me going through that right now... if i ever have a kid and its a boy i'll make sure not to make his future gfs life a living hell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted February 3 Author Report Share Posted February 3 Originally posted by thrillfire They still had hopes for their son and i to get back together.. yea they don't say anything, but i think that's what it is too.i was the only one of his gf's to keep him out of trouble and had him doing good things, not to mention i was the only one of his gf's that never gave him b.s....I'm thinking i need to cut ties, but i feel weird because i never had any problems with them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted February 3 Report Share Posted February 3 Originally posted by Destiny the parents???So who has been really really close with their sig others' parents, then you break up with your sig other, and wonder how to act toward their parents when you see/talk to them.My ex's parents still call me, and I have no idea how to act. Their son and I broke up quite some time ago...My friend is still close with her ex's mother, and she just said its fine, but I feel a little awkward about it.Any suggestions?? my in-law's would dump their son b4 they let me go if we broke up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted February 3 Report Share Posted February 3 Originally posted by tranzwhore my in-law's would dump their son b4 they let me go if we broke up :laugh: :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted February 3 Report Share Posted February 3 Originally posted by Destiny yea they don't say anything, but i think that's what it is too.i was the only one of his gf's to keep him out of trouble and had him doing good things, not to mention i was the only one of his gf's that never gave him b.s....I'm thinking i need to cut ties, but i feel weird because i never had any problems with them... i've been there - you just need to tell them that even though you really like them, they've been great to you, etc. etc. that its really uncomfortable for you to be close with them right now..blah blah blah. if that's how you honestly feel you gotta just say it. Then just say hi when you see them but don't get into conversations about what your doing, school, whatever for a while. Eventually it won't be awkward anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxichikk Posted February 3 Report Share Posted February 3 i want to cry every time i see my ex's family. I loveeeed them so much. They came into my job one day , like grandmother and all. I was so upset i wanted to leave work.Its better off if you cut all ties, it just becomes a weird situtaion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted February 3 Report Share Posted February 3 Originally posted by bullseye awww, damn b*tchi dated a beautiful black girl the year i got out of high school, and i also worked for her dad before we started datin. then about month after we started datin, kinda in secret, he found out. he fired me and forbid from ever seein his daughter again in anyway. sucked, but she loved her father to much to disappoint him. i never saw her again. ah is ok, she didnt hate me or anything but i always knew she didnt like me.....that was wrong of him to do that, oh well things happen for a reasonthrillfire i hope everything works out for you, its not a good sign when the parents dont like u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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