fearlesss Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 Here's a the situation. I was doing some free lance web work for a private high (rebuilding alumni email lists) and I came a email address of a girl that I used to know. We worked together at Bloomingdales when she was in hs and I was starting college. We hung out, flirted, etc alot. I have not seen or heard about her since like 98-99. Would it be odd/wrong if i email her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 YES. ur gonna freak her out. let the past stay the past. its better that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 I don't think so...an email isn't to stalkerish. You know just let her know you came across her address and wanted to see what she is up to and how she is doing. I think that is better than calling someone on the phone that you haven't seen in years...kind of seems like you are going through your old little black book.Go for it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 not to start an argument with u, but isnt the phone and email the same? i would nt say email is any better. its just the more modern way. coming across someone's email address in some database is kinda like going thru ur black book. its been 5-6 yrs. plus she was a hs school girl then. now she's an adult. ppl change alot in that time period of life. she's probably not the same person she was in hs at and at bloomingdale's at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 not to start an argument with u, but isnt the phone and email the same? i would nt say email is any better. its just the more modern way. coming across someone's email address in some database is kinda like going thru ur black book. its been 5-6 yrs. plus she was a hs school girl then. now she's an adult. ppl change alot in that time period of life. she's probably not the same person she was in hs at and at bloomingdale's at allOk but an email you don't have the awkwardness of being on the phone with her and shit...you can just say your hellos and wait and see if she responds.Oh and I agree with you about her probably being different and all but this Fearless guy sounds like it's been a while since he got any pussy so he might as well give this a shot. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 this Fearless guy sounds like it's been a while since he got any pussy so he might as well give this a shot. point well taken. i agree w/ u 100% now. go for it fearless!! wut ya got to lose? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 do it.....nothin to lose and it isn't stalkerish at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted May 20 Report Share Posted May 20 who gives a fuck? just contact her and to say hello and see what happens. no big deal. don't be a pussy!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fearlesss Posted May 20 Author Report Share Posted May 20 S**t, you guys trying to make sound I wanna hook up with her. That's not the case. But thats cool since this is the sex board. the reason why I was asking was because when I saw the name it was like oh I remember her, I wonder what she's up to. I, fully, except her to have changed since I knew. if she has not she's gotten issues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted May 21 Report Share Posted May 21 do it! u never know! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 21 Report Share Posted May 21 S**t, you guys trying to make sound I wanna hook up with her. ya mean u dont wanna hook up with every girl u ever come in contact with? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirtyepic18 Posted May 22 Report Share Posted May 22 being that you dont have anything to lose, you might as well try an email.... but truthfully i wouldnt expect anything to come of it... 5-6 years is quite a while when she was young in the first place, and it doesnt seem like you knew her all the well outside work Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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