sweetie029 Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 Practically everyone I know is graduating school.....moving out on their own.....getting married ectHere I am.....Pretty much taking baby steps through school....I'm nowhere near done.....I have a good job for now but I just feel like pretty much everyone who I know is starting to get their lives in order except for me....Mind you I'm not talking about getting married....But I just feel like I'm going to be in school & living at home forever....It almost makes me want to just say fuck it & give up...1-2 years ago I kept saying to myself "oh I have plenty of time"....Yea...time came back around to bite me in the ass b/c now I feel like there's not enough time for me to accomplish what I want toSorry for the long post but I needed to vent.....This has been bothering me lately Destiny and innocentbadgrl 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted June 7 Author Report Share Posted June 7 Practically everyone I know is graduating school.....moving out on their own.....getting married ectHere I am.....Pretty much taking baby steps through school....I'm nowhere near done.....I have a good job for now but I just feel like pretty much everyone who I know is starting to get their lives in order except for me....Mind you I'm not talking about getting married....But I just feel like I'm going to be in school & living at home forever....It almost makes me want to just say fuck it & give up...1-2 years ago I kept saying to myself "oh I have plenty of time"....Yea...time came back around to bite me in the ass b/c now I feel like there's not enough time for me to accomplish what I want toSorry for the long post but I needed to vent.....This has been bothering me lately Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 what the hell do u care at what pace everyone around u is moving? those who are first out of the gates usually falter in the long run, they run out of steam....overachievers tend not to overachieve their whole lives..trust me..ull b aight Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 what the hell do u care at what pace everyone around u is moving? those who are first out of the gates usually falter in the long run, they run out of steam....overachievers tend not to overachieve their whole lives..trust me..ull b aight i agree! just move at your own pace! innocentbadgrl 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 pretty much...things will fall into place...just keep going.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 me n solbeam r perfect examples of slow n steady wins the race....every1 who we knew that overachieved works @ Denny's now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 me n solbeam r perfect examples of slow n steady wins the race....every1 who we knew that overachieved works @ Denny's nowyup, you moved up to ihop.... i question where my life is going all the time.... a lot more lately than I used to... maybe b/c I'm getting older and wondering what the fuck i'm doing, but mostly just b/c I don't know what I want outta life...but do things for the right reasons, not b/c your friends are past where you're at.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 yup, you moved up to ihop.... damn straight lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 actually i work @ Burger King...a King taking Orders Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 eh, dont feel bad. i graduated school and i still dont know what i am doing. just do what you feel good about and you will figure out where you are going before you know it. i just found out i am probably moving so i am unemployed, went shopping, spent a few 100 even though i am broke, now i am sitting around my apartment, alone, kinda bored but the point is that i am happy and probably having a hell of a better time than 99% of manhattan who is at work listening to some asshole tell them what to do. enjoy being young. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 You don't get something 4 nuthinWork is called work for a reason. The best situation is to be working at something you enjoy. But who, besides professional athletes and sparse other people do enjoy that So don't feel bad if you're wasting away doing a job that you hate. It is temporary, and at least you're making money!I also don't know where the heck im headed. But just KEEP BUSY. Fill your time. Read. talk to all kinds of people. That's how you narrow things down and figure out what you want.Don't look at the world as this huge thing to encounter. Look at it as peeling away the layers, and the older you get, and more experience you go thru, the more layers you peel off to find the hidden meaning in the center innocentbadgrl 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted June 7 Report Share Posted June 7 I felt the same way awhile back. I still have to go BACK to school among other things I want to do. I'm doing it piece by piece because if I try to do it all at once, i'm going to overwhelm myself. don't worry, take your time if you need it. don't rush and push yourself, because youre just going to stress yourself out and youre not going to get anywhere. things will fall into place as soon as they're ready to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 "everyone moves at their own pace"think about it...some people i know lost their virginiy at 13 ..others i know at 18...gmmcookny still is a virgin..i started smokin weed in 7th grade...two of my best friends started smoking 2 years ago...everyone moves at their own pace...dont rush life...it will eventually get done...be patient..and enjoy the ride Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 chillax...just take it as it comes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! innocentbadgrl 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Practically everyone I know is graduating school.....moving out on their own.....getting married ectHere I am.....Pretty much taking baby steps through school....I'm nowhere near done.....I have a good job for now but I just feel like pretty much everyone who I know is starting to get their lives in order except for me....Mind you I'm not talking about getting married....But I just feel like I'm going to be in school & living at home forever....It almost makes me want to just say fuck it & give up...1-2 years ago I kept saying to myself "oh I have plenty of time"....Yea...time came back around to bite me in the ass b/c now I feel like there's not enough time for me to accomplish what I want toSorry for the long post but I needed to vent.....This has been bothering me lately everyone has a different time line and a different definition of success... dont compare yourself to others compare yourself to yourself... where you are in life, and where you want to be, not where others are or are going... set realistic shorterm goals achieve them, move forward... if you look to see where are others are it will only distract you from getting to where you want to be... IMO... live life going forward enjoy it thinking backward and dont forget those with you while doing so... dgmodel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Practically everyone I know is graduating school.....moving out on their own.....getting married ectHere I am.....Pretty much taking baby steps through school....I'm nowhere near done.....I have a good job for now but I just feel like pretty much everyone who I know is starting to get their lives in order except for me....Mind you I'm not talking about getting married....But I just feel like I'm going to be in school & living at home forever....It almost makes me want to just say fuck it & give up...1-2 years ago I kept saying to myself "oh I have plenty of time"....Yea...time came back around to bite me in the ass b/c now I feel like there's not enough time for me to accomplish what I want toSorry for the long post but I needed to vent.....This has been bothering me lately give up and just kill yourself... it will be better not only for you. but for mankind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 youre a fuckin idiot... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 youre a fuckin idiot...fuck you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 wooooooh~! im shook up... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 "...gmmcookny still is a virgin..your sister would beg to differ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 and your mom was beggin' for it all of last night... oh snap~! cyber-diss bitches~!in case anyone can't tell im joking... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deepspell Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 here we go.....is this going to end up in drama too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kahn Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 Please update your location to:"a few years away from where I want to be." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted June 8 Report Share Posted June 8 here we go.....is this going to end up in drama too?i want a cdbiatch!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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