candylicious Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 My friends and I have bin debating this issue for some time now. It seems that we cant agree on it. I would like some opinions on the issue. If I am dating some one I usualy wait about 1 month befor I START to consider sex. No matter how much I like the guy. ( I like to get to know someone befor I do the nasty) But, I was told that is to much time and the guy will bail if I wait that long. In all honesty if a guy is going to bail just because I am takeing my time then he is not worth my time. And trust me its worth the wait. Im not a timid girl in the bedroom. Outside the bedroom now thats another story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 the longer you make a guy wait... the better it has to be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrismakk69 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 There shouldnt be a set time period to wait...Just whenever it feels right... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrsblend Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 You should just let it happen whenever it feels right...that being a week or 3 months! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tc55 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 If it's somebody you just met and you never knew them before. I go by the third date rule. If it's your third shot at being alone with this person the girl should know if she is going to have sex with the guy by that point. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 i'd rather not find out how long i could wait Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 You should just let it happen whenever it feels right...that being a week or 3 months! I agree - there's always different situations/people/feelings, etc. There's no 'right' time IMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 I agree - there's always different situations/people/feelings, etc. There's no 'right' time IMOindeed. very true, and just for the record, PLAYING HARD TO GET JUST PISSES GUYS OFF Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrismakk69 Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 yeah I do hate that playin hard to get shit...i mean, i could wait, but if we both want it and shes playin games, i just get irritated... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 we have some very intelligent ladies giving some very intelligent answers!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missroxy Posted July 14 Report Share Posted July 14 If youre looking to be in a relationship that has like feelings involved, i think a month is a good time to wait. its a good safe time period to get to know if you even want to pursue a relationship. It takes a long time to get to know someone. i don't know if i could do this, but i think its really cool for girls who can. But if its just a time period in your life where you wanna have fun and youre not looking for something serious, then whenever you're horny enough to give in sounds good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 I agree - there's always different situations/people/feelings, etc. There's no 'right' time IMOagreed.... who gives a shit about rules... u cant force anything to happen any more than u can hold back from doing it... just let it happennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 i think it is good to wait. if you give it up too easy a lot of guys will not feel any connection to you and will have no problem never seeing you again. not that it is a big deal. i personally dont like short relationships that are meaningless so i wouldnt want to bother having sex with someone i am not going to be with for a while. i agree that if a guy doesnt want to wait a month or whatever amount of time you feel is right, then let him leave, he is not worth your time or energy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candylicious Posted July 15 Author Report Share Posted July 15 indeed. very true, and just for the record, PLAYING HARD TO GET JUST PISSES GUYS OFFI dont pay hard to get. I just want to be sure that if I give myself to a guy that I trust him. That takes time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candylicious Posted July 15 Author Report Share Posted July 15 i think it is good to wait. if you give it up too easy a lot of guys will not feel any connection to you and will have no problem never seeing you again. not that it is a big deal. i personally dont like short relationships that are meaningless so i wouldnt want to bother having sex with someone i am not going to be with for a while. i agree that if a guy doesnt want to wait a month or whatever amount of time you feel is right, then let him leave, he is not worth your time or energy.Exactly, Why end up sleeping with every loser you meet! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Should only do it if it feels right, if your both comfortable and ready for it. Hoes that let me fuck em on first night are exactly that, hoes. I don't mind the wait, specially if she's really special Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Exactly, Why end up sleeping with every loser you meet!I think the girls that said there are no rules, weren't exactly sayin to sleep with 'every loser you meet' -- it's more about what feels right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djrx06 Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 we have some very intelligent ladies giving some very intelligent answers!!!!!!!!!!!!!AMEN!!!!!!! It depends on the connection between the two people. Some people feel comfortable right off the bat and some don't. You'll with your partner when the time is right!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tc55 Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 agreed.... who gives a shit about rules... u cant force anything to happen any more than u can hold back from doing it... just let it happennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnagreed but there is a time when the guy is going to be like wtf. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candylicious Posted July 15 Author Report Share Posted July 15 I think the girls that said there are no rules, weren't exactly sayin to sleep with 'every loser you meet' -- it's more about what feels right.I was replying to what "Somebitch" said. I would rather wait to see if the guy is really feeling me or out for something else. I dont go by just if the feelings are there. Everyone has ther own preferences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 My friends and I have bin debating this issue for some time now. It seems that we cant agree on it. I would like some opinions on the issue. If I am dating some one I usualy wait about 1 month befor I START to consider sex. No matter how much I like the guy. ( I like to get to know someone befor I do the nasty) But, I was told that is to much time and the guy will bail if I wait that long. In all honesty if a guy is going to bail just because I am takeing my time then he is not worth my time. And trust me its worth the wait. Im not a timid girl in the bedroom. Outside the bedroom now thats another story.the question is really "WHY WAIT ??" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 You should just let it happen whenever it feels right...that being a week or 3 months! or on the 1st date Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrsblend Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 or on the 1st date Hey....it worked for me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 Hey....it worked for me!thats why i posted earlier ..." why wait ?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted July 15 Report Share Posted July 15 My friends and I have bin debating this issue for some time now. It seems that we cant agree on it. I would like some opinions on the issue. If I am dating some one I usualy wait about 1 month befor I START to consider sex. No matter how much I like the guy. ( I like to get to know someone befor I do the nasty) But, I was told that is to much time and the guy will bail if I wait that long. In all honesty if a guy is going to bail just because I am takeing my time then he is not worth my time. And trust me its worth the wait. Im not a timid girl in the bedroom. Outside the bedroom now thats another story.just wait until he rapes you... END OF THREAD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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