CrzyC Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 Ladies, let's say you meet a man and he's funny and charming and makes you laugh a lot, and talks about things that make you think, really think, because he's got things on his mind that are philosophical in nature. Let's say he's an interesting man who is always gentle and caring and all that mushy stuff. Would it matter to you that he has extra pounds and isn't really in shape? Let's say he has a beer belly from his beer drinking days, but doesn't drink anymore yet still has the belly. Would that be a serious turn off, regardless of how interesting he was to talk with and how sweet he was to you, and how he made you laugh? I am curious and am looking for the opinions of the ladies here.No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 24 Report Share Posted September 24 i prefer muscles Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
az-tec Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 So what about a guy, hypothetically speaking, who is 5'10 and between 223-230 pounds? Is that a user-friendly body size?dont sweat it man...im 5'10 and about 215/220 and i dont have any problems meeting girls...if your still confident than youll be just fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 dont sweat it man...im 5'10 and about 215/220 and i dont have any problems meeting girls...if your still confident than youll be just fine.Thanks for that, dude. I am a master of missed opportunities, because there have been several instances where I've talked with women (off the internet I mean) and only afterwards did I realize that she was flirting with me, or seemed interested enough if I had made a move. But then it was too late. But I sometimes think that my stomach gets in the way, and in a way it does because it comes between getting closer to the woman, physically comes between us. LOL. Yeah, my belly is like a reputation, it procedes me wherever I go. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted September 25 Author Report Share Posted September 25 i prefer musclesSo do I. I used to have nice ones too till I stopped working out too many years ago. But I still have shape and contour, especially around my shoulder area. They say that muscles have memory, and whenever I've started working out for a while, or spent some time lugging heavy boxes at work, I became pumped up and they took shape again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted September 25 Report Share Posted September 25 and you can always turn the lights off moniquetz007 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted September 29 Author Report Share Posted September 29 and you can always turn the lights offBut where's the fun in that? I like to see my lady, not imagine her as I grope in the dark. Oh, you meant turn the light off so she doesn't see my wieght? That's a different story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted September 29 Report Share Posted September 29 dont worry abt it...i've seen plenty of hot bitches with guys that were out of shape...its all in the personality...of course that doesn't mean you should just let urself go heheh...but yeah...its all in the personality really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nutcase34 Posted September 29 Report Share Posted September 29 i love guys that are pudgy, i think its so cute , i think it is like a teddy bear, not huge! but i never was really into muscle heads, i hate them, lean and muscular is hot for sure but i love my cuddly guys its the best!!pudgy is definitely cute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chinelas Posted September 29 Report Share Posted September 29 ok everyone how about broke ass pudgy guys with no money or even further more no car...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nutcase34 Posted September 29 Report Share Posted September 29 ok everyone how about broke ass pudgy guys with no money or even further more no car......I would think he had no ambition or motivation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlickSlider Posted October 25 Author Report Share Posted October 25 dont worry abt it...i've seen plenty of hot bitches with guys that were out of shape...its all in the personality...of course that doesn't mean you should just let urself go heheh...but yeah...its all in the personality reallyDang, I forgot about this thread. All in the personality. Cool thing, I have no trouble there. And it applies all around, because my belly has personality too. amyscottsdale 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted October 25 Report Share Posted October 25 someone said it earlier, but made it sound as though it's unique to her. i think it's generally true that most women look at faces first. when i'm at a club with a male gay friend of mine, he'll point out a guy and say something about how hot he is. i'll say how busted i think the guy's face is, and my friend will remind me that he's always only looking "from the neck down!". maybe that's related to how women look at guy's eyes when they talk to them and how men are content to look at women's boobs when in conversation... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted October 25 Report Share Posted October 25 good body and looks gives a much faster way "in" obviously, but down the road it doesn´t really matter that much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyme Posted October 25 Report Share Posted October 25 If everything you described about that guy is not enough for her..then she's just a shallow!!! You always have to look past the looks because in actuallity, it's not that easy to find a normal guy or a girl with a complete package (looks, brains, personality, etc), but if you're going to search for JUST that and ignore everything else around you, you'll end up alone and miserable! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
italianp7 Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 honestly... i dont like skinny guys.. i like my man to be 5'9 and over and have meat on him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilbarbiegirl Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 this is a great post: finally proof that we all don't have to look perfect!!!there's girls that like skinny guysthere's girls that like average guysthere's girls that like pudgy guysthere's girls that like muscular guys (my man needs to spend more time in the gym than i do, for example)does this go the other way though?? come on guys speak up??i know there's guys who hate skinny girlsi know there's guys that hate big girlswhat's just right?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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