shirtless Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 ok... convo i had with some ppl last night... some input on the board perhaps to which theory/situation seems more true.ok.. so my one good friend and i each had one bad relationship recently... i mean they were both ended before the summer, but anyone who was ever in a bad relationship knows how the feelings tend to drag on and linger... NOW we always say that we have changed due to the situations were in and bla bla bla. WELL, I came up with this theory kinda that EVERYONE has a bad relationship at one point. That X may not be completely awful but the two of you together didnt work. I think when ppl thrive on situations and blame them for a lot of the bad things that have happened it doesnt do anything. EVERYONE could cry and bitch and whine about what one of there EXs did.. but its the ppl that can truely get over it that grow and change. Not the ppl who just blame the relationship for their actions or choices. Is that true of do you think that bad relationships always will hold a place in your heart and will never be forgoten???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chinelas Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 Is that true of do you think that bad relationships always will hold a place in your heart and will never be forgoten????i would agree. I think of it as a lesson of what not do do next time I get into one, or if they start acting in a similar manner in which made the last relationship bad, for example if they were being over possesive and such, I would then break it off in the friendliest of manners as to avoid another bad situation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 Define bad relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 i would agree. I think of it as a lesson of what not do do next time I get into one, or if they start acting in a similar manner in which made the last relationship bad, for example if they were being over possesive and such, I would then break it off in the friendliest of manners as to avoid another bad situation.YES i agree with that but i just dont like when ppl (even i have done it) act like it was so bad and only happened to them.. and it was such a unique situation.. ya no ? I just think sometimes ppl suck together.. and move on... notice similar behaviors.. a friendly boot... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 so my one good friend and i each had one bad relationship recently... i mean they were both ended before the summerI knew that Anthony punk was no good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 Define bad relationship.could be many.. it is all in the eye of the person...bad could mean any type of physical, mental, or psychological abuse or overly controling characteristics or even not caring enough or a cheater... bad is all in what a persons perception is... but if you have been in a "bad relationship" you tend to know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 never had a bad relationship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 YES i agree with that but i just dont like when ppl (even i have done it) act like it was so bad and only happened to them.. and it was such a unique situation.. ya no ? I just think sometimes ppl suck together.. and move on... notice similar behaviors.. a friendly boot...Whatever - I agree and will say that some people were not supposed to be together. I also think that a lot of people give up on relationships. I also think that shirtless should post a pic of her tits. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 I knew that Anthony punk was no good NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH HIM!!! He was not a bad guy... only lasted a short while... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 Whatever - I agree and will say that some people were not supposed to be together. I also think that a lot of people give up on relationships. I also think that shirtless should post a pic of her tits.GIVING UP IS A GOOOOOD POINT.... but as a person that gave up once before... after a while if you know its not gunna work, you know... why waste time on something that you really dont want ... you may have wanted it at sometime but once your turned off and cold.. its kinda hard to turn you love back on... speccially if you have ben hurt or upset alot.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 GIVING UP IS A GOOOOOD POINT.... but as a person that gave up once before... after a while if you know its not gunna work, you know... why waste time on something that you really dont want ... you may have wanted it at sometime but once your turned off and cold.. its kinda hard to turn you love back on... speccially if you have ben hurt or upset alot..Yeah, you have to draw the line at some point or another. You also have to look at the time invested in the relationship to see if it's even worth saving. You also have to weigh your serenity and peace of mind with being with the person vs. being without. Then all that's left is posting nekkid pictures of yourself on an internet meesage board, i.e. clubplanet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chinelas Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 YES i agree with that but i just dont like when ppl (even i have done it) act like it was so bad and only happened to them.. and it was such a unique situation.. ya no ? I just think sometimes ppl suck together.. and move on... notice similar behaviors.. a friendly boot...i dont like it either and its like this with almost all my freinds ( it even started to happen when my circle of freinds started interdating, which i also dont like cuz they expect you to take sides.) sometimes i like to solve the situation with a swift boot in the ass and smack in the face, then tell them that they always make the situation sound worse then it is and are a bunch of drama addicts. Then, should they start seeing someone new and they start acting like like the asshole before them, i tell them this is gunna be just like when you went out with so and so because this person acts the same way.yes ppl together do suck sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 Yeah, you have to draw the line at some point or another. You also have to look at the time invested in the relationship to see if it's even worth saving. You also have to weigh your serenity and peace of mind with being with the person vs. being without. Then all that's left is posting nekkid pictures of yourself on an internet meesage board, i.e. clubplanet.SO PERSISTANT I MUST SAY! i just think i am gunna become celibate.... see if it helps me out ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 i dont like it either and its like this with almost all my freinds ( it even started to happen when my circle of freinds started interdating, which i also dont like cuz they expect you to take sides.) sometimes i like to solve the situation with a swift boot in the ass and smack in the face, then tell them that they always make the situation sound worse then it is and are a bunch of drama addicts. Then, should they start seeing someone new and they start acting like like the asshole before them, i tell them this is gunna be just like when you went out with so and so because this person acts the same way.yes ppl together do suck sometimes.YES THEY DO... but its the beauty of it all... i just love how honestly EVERYONE or the maority of ppl can say something bad about one relationship and make it seem so bad.. but if you flip it around.. they were prob pretty fucked up as well... I DEF no i can say this... i just wish ppl werent always so selfish... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH HIM!!! He was not a bad guy... only a little short where it counted...a little more info than I needed but I see where you are coming from Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shirtless Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 a little more info than I needed but I see where you are coming fromi didnt say that.. please edit it.. dont need any enemies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
basicmike Posted October 13 Report Share Posted October 13 NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH HIM!!! He was not a bad guy... only lasted a short while in bed...premature ejaculator...Did you guys try to get treatment for him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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