tastey Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 its just fun b/c we keep the chase going on both sides... when i back off a lil, he chases me... then i respond and he backs off a lil and we keep going and going... it def keeps it interesting... one of these days we're just gonna unleash on each other though and have some crazy times haha that´s what it´s all aboutpeople you can really "play" with in a flirting sense are so rare Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gio660 Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 girls shouldn't have to make the first move, but i'm tired of bitches who just go out too see how many guys will hit on them for their egos.. or the bitches that only act interested in ya to get a drink... i don't buy a girls drinks ever unless i know them personally. Always funny when they ask, and ya say no, then they dunno what to do... But i will offer to make them a drink back at my place Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 girls shouldn't have to make the first move, but i'm tired of bitches who just go out too see how many guys will hit on them for their egos.. or the bitches that only act interested in ya to get a drink... i don't buy a girls drinks ever unless i know them personally. Always funny when they ask, and ya say no, then they dunno what to do... But i will offer to make them a drink back at my placehaha hell yeah i have never and never will buy any girl a drink unless i know them. bihatches Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 fuck the whole dating game altogether. That's why I have a stack of porn up to my armpits and when I feel lonely I talk to my therapist, and I have two housemates for companionship. Fuck women and the whole dating bullshit. I have been so much better off mentally since I gave up the chase. Well, maybe I haven't really given up - just accepted defeat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 i may flirt with a guy first..like smile or whatever....but one thing ill Never do is kiss a guy first...its a thign with me...ill set up the situation...i may even hint at it but the guy has to be the one to reach in and kiss me...i guess thats part of my game i play amyscottsdale 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 i have no problem with it... just depends on the vibe i get from the dood I couldnt picture u making the first move/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 It's not about B.S. some females as myself just like to be classy about theres. I for one if I like a guy would def. go for the first move, but just be classy about it and you'll get plenty of respect.I love ur sig. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amyscottsdale Posted November 9 Report Share Posted November 9 girls shouldn't have to make the first move, but i'm tired of bitches who just go out too see how many guys will hit on them for their egos.. or the bitches that only act interested in ya to get a drink... i don't buy a girls drinks ever unless i know them personally. Always funny when they ask, and ya say no, then they dunno what to do... But i will offer to make them a drink back at my placehaha, that's great! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nekokaburi Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 look, playing games is fine when you know where you stand with each other.but when I meet someone, if they start playing games, I'm gone.Lingering looks, 'casual' touches, that's all part of flirting. but pretending you're not interested when you know you are, you think you're playing hard to get, I think you're playing easy to resist.and to make things worse, if you think a girl's just playing hard to get, and it turns out she's not, if you go just a bit too far you can be charged with sexual harassment, or even assault.funny thing is, "too far" isnt really that far at alla "Lingering look" can be considered sexual harassment, if she wants to take it as such.Basically, life is short, why waste what little time we have on this planet by playing games? If you like someone, let them know, if not, let them know that too. Then everyone can get on with their lives and stop wasting time on something that will ultimately go nowhere.(and yeah, the bitches that just pretend to be interested to mooch drinks annoy the fuck outta me too)oh, and really, why should guys always have to be the aggressive ones? (some) women bitch about equality, but only when it suits them. you want equality? but your own damn drinks, open your own damn doors, and for fuck's sake, dont always expect guys to make the first move while you play "hard to get"(wow, bit more rant-ish than I intended *prepares for yet more neg rep*) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotherway83 Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 look, playing games is fine when you know where you stand with each other.but when I meet someone, if they start playing games, I'm gone.Lingering looks, 'casual' touches, that's all part of flirting. but pretending you're not interested when you know you are, you think you're playing hard to get, I think you're playing easy to resist.and to make things worse, if you think a girl's just playing hard to get, and it turns out she's not, if you go just a bit too far you can be charged with sexual harassment, or even assault.funny thing is, "too far" isnt really that far at alla "Lingering look" can be considered sexual harassment, if she wants to take it as such.Basically, life is short, why waste what little time we have on this planet by playing games? If you like someone, let them know, if not, let them know that too. Then everyone can get on with their lives and stop wasting time on something that will ultimately go nowhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 Basically, life is short, why waste what little time we have on this planet by playing games? cuz its funyou don´t know what i mean with "playing games". it´s PLAYFUL as in PLAYING. flirting. you´re not "really" hard to get, but you pretend to be. both of you know this. it is fun. one *plays* the chaser and one *plays* the chasee. get it? a GAME. like roleplaying. FUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN. jeez you must be boring as hell. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cookie6 Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 cuz its funyou don´t know what i mean with "playing games". it´s PLAYFUL as in PLAYING. flirting. you´re not "really" hard to get, but you pretend to be. both of you know this. it is fun. one *plays* the chaser and one *plays* the chasee. get it? a GAME. like roleplaying. FUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN. jeez you must be boring as hell.I agree, in that sense its def fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 look, playing games is fine when you know where you stand with each other.but when I meet someone, if they start playing games, I'm gone.Lingering looks, 'casual' touches, that's all part of flirting. but pretending you're not interested when you know you are, you think you're playing hard to get, I think you're playing easy to resist.and to make things worse, if you think a girl's just playing hard to get, and it turns out she's not, if you go just a bit too far you can be charged with sexual harassment, or even assault.funny thing is, "too far" isnt really that far at alla "Lingering look" can be considered sexual harassment, if she wants to take it as such.Basically, life is short, why waste what little time we have on this planet by playing games? If you like someone, let them know, if not, let them know that too. Then everyone can get on with their lives and stop wasting time on something that will ultimately go nowhere.(and yeah, the bitches that just pretend to be interested to mooch drinks annoy the fuck outta me too)oh, and really, why should guys always have to be the aggressive ones? (some) women bitch about equality, but only when it suits them. you want equality? but your own damn drinks, open your own damn doors, and for fuck's sake, dont always expect guys to make the first move while you play "hard to get"(wow, bit more rant-ish than I intended *prepares for yet more neg rep*)Well said , just how i feeland so what? there's so many girls out there. if there's one that's obviously all about the "game", just move on to one that isn't.It's one thing with harmless flirting or lil things here and there. but when the person is stressing "the game", that's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nekokaburi Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 I have fun flirting (I do it all the time with almost every girl I meet) but like gmc said, it's not all about 'the game' and if that's all she's interested in, sorry, I aint waiting around for her to grow up.I dont want to wake up one day, and realize that I wasted half my life and countless opportunities because I wanted to play games rather than look for something meaningful in life.you think my life is boring or that it sucks because i dont like to play games? I think that people who play games are pathetic. rather than look for something real, they gotta play games to fill the void that is their empty little life, because they know that underneath the games, they got nothing.and that's why when a girl starts playing games, i walk out the door. If she's gotta play games to keep a guy interested, she obviously brings nothing to the table, and I want something a little more than a good chase out of a woman.and there's a big difference between a little back and forth flirting/chasing and playing 'the game' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notallthere444 Posted November 11 Author Report Share Posted November 11 man you guys like to post long ass shit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 It depends, I have no problem making the first move.its true she send me a pm saying "lets get some ice cream tonight..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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