misskittie Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Ok I dont really like poking fun at others but this is a little crazy if you ask my honest opinion.A friend of mine has been dating this guy for a few months now and she is complaining about the sex. "It's good" she says.."the sex...but it's horrible foreplay"Ok so they have NO foreplay. She goes down on him but thats about it. He doesnt touch nor go down. Pretty sad if u ask me. Not even a little touch...how on earth do u expect the girl to get remotely horny??? (he's not even big...I walked in by accident once)Okay and here is the RIDICULOUS part...He *ONLY* has sex after at least 8 beers! He refuses to have sex with any less in him or being sober.I know people have complexes about their performance but this is a little too extreme in my opinion. But I have never heard of such a bizarre happening either.Is this normal or should she be worried? I think this kid has issues and personally, I would either try to work with him to ease his fears if this was was me or drop him. Anyone have an opinion or any ideas?? Ever heard of something similiar even? ------------------ "Love is friendship set to music." ...E. Joseph CrossmannAOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeydollaz Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 is she hot ...?? send her in my direction ... i'll please her drunk or sober ... ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
precator Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 doesn't sound like a real man to me. I love going down Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Hmm I'd love to help out on that but I never heard anything like that. How old is the guy?------------------ This genie grants 3 wishes... Hey I'm not sharing! He's all MINE! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted December 4 Author Report Share Posted December 4 He just turned 22 in Ocotber. She will be 22 in March so its not like they havent had any experience.I was told though that he does not like to go down on girls because he doesntlike the smell...must have had some bad experiences. I think its all an excuse though. ------------------ "Love is friendship set to music." ...E. Joseph CrossmannAOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxyroxy20 Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 damn no foreplay at all, shit, i would of been out of there a long time ago, damn what is sex without foreplay, esp. for a woman. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baroneb Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Sounds like he thinks she is gross and just wants her to bang. If he usually just wants her to blow him then he def is grossed out by her and is hoggin. Are they actually dating, or is she the end of the night girl. Sorry, know that sounds mean, but I cant think of any other reason, unless he is amish or something and is afraid of a little nookie nookie. Tell to to yell out "whats my name bitch" during sex, I have head this sometimes helps these situations..B ------------------"Fools cant see me thats how it is thats how I like it cause thats my biz" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myrlin Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Hmmm...Guys with oddities and complexes about sex shouldn't be getting any.Ive seen weird stuff like this before in people and it makes no sense. Either he should ship up or get tossed out. No room in this world for lunacy.... ------------------Myrlin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 maybe he's not sexually attreacted to her------------------Use email DJmikeDR@aol.comPM way too slow! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 hon, it's her problem, don't stress about it. if you don't want to hear about it (i wouldn't!) ask her in a nice way to stop sharing the intimate details of her relationship - you're not her therapist. they'll break up eventually and she'll find a better lover, and be sooooo much happier. he sounds selfish and has a drinking problem as well as performance issues!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted December 4 Author Report Share Posted December 4 Okay no it has nothing to do with her. I happen to know a few other girls he has rumbled around with and same thing. No foreplay just sex.So, now, what is ur response. If it happens with all of them then it cant be the girls. There has to be some other reason for this... ------------------ "Love is friendship set to music." ...E. Joseph CrossmannAOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 No foreplay how fun is that? and she says the sex is good???? Very odd to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myrlin Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Originally posted by misskittie:Okay no it has nothing to do with her. I happen to know a few other girls he has rumbled around with and same thing. No foreplay just sex.So, now, what is ur response. If it happens with all of them then it cant be the girls. There has to be some other reason for this... Only way to handle this is a direct question to this fool....I mean guy. There are some things you just dont have time for and immaturity happens to be one of them.Sex should be an open topic, only way it will be good, (weve had this conversation b4 hehe) and Im actually quite tired of people being so secretive and picky about it. Sure, some things stay private but stuff like this ridiculous.------------------Myrlin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eggmok Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 i don't need the 8 beers to get the sex going . . .i'm old fashioned . . .i use a paper bag for her face . . .------------------Life is too short to be small. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowchaser Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 he's gay...------------------maybe someday is when it all stops or maybe someday always comes again...shadowchaser076@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trippintrance64 Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Sad story. I love giving oral to girls ...its my favorite....epp....did i say that out loud??------------------"A man makes his sunshine, and he makes his rain. Look at what you have, and where you are, before you say, "I've had a horrible day" Appreciate what you have, and realize how much others wish they could have that much. Live Life, and LOVE IT!" --Me"Sometimes there is so much beauty in the world i feel i can't take it. and i feel like my heart is gonna cave in" -American BeautyK and Erm...there is only one thing to say that will express my feelings about you guys......HAAAAAABUUUURRRBBNo Pleasure, No Rapture, No Exquisite Sin Greater....Than Central Air. - Dogma"I can walk in straight lines, within my own crooked world" -a drunken Aramis Ponte Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jprutig Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Originally posted by eggmok:i don't need the 8 beers to get the sex going . . .i'm old fashioned . . .i use a paper bag for her face . . .i hope that you recycle those bags------------------you can judge the quality and content of one's character by the way they treat someone that can do nothing for them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shannah Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 I'm w/Frank on this one...he's repressing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
the_pharmacist Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 I won't even let a girl TOUCH me until I've made her cum at least 3 times. This guy won't even go down? WTF? I'm sure im getting too personal here, but damn...that's my favourite thing to do. and 8 beers? 8? damn, i know im a lightweight then, because after 8 I can hardly get a cab, muchless anything else. This friend of your needs to move on....soon!!!BTW....here's my email and phone number...have her call me anytime...hahaha.... = P ------------------ www.Hardhaus.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momadance Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 I think the most rediculous thing is that he will only have sex after no less than 8 beers. This alone means that he doesnt care about her sexual (and most other) needs and is only out to fill his own. It also means he propably doesnt care much about any other of her fealings either. Your friend should get rid of this loser and find someone who will treat her a lot better, there are plenty of nice guys out there. They are the ones not hitting on every girl they see. Any guy that is out and just hitting on any and every girl obviously has nothing to offer and is looking to fafill his own needs and wants. Any guy that has any fealings of self-worth or self-esteem knows that just any girl doenst deserve what he has, and he doest go out trying to give it to anybody, but is looking for someone special. You girls need to be careful of anyone who randomly tries to pick you up in a club, especially after about 4 in the morning. (they are only looking at you looks anyway) I dont know if the guy in the OG post was from a club or not, but you get the point.Peace,Michael, who never goes out looking for girls ------------------"Puff, Puff, Pass" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evovr6 Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Yeah I agree with Shadowchaser, he's definitely gay.------------------ http://nastynate.tsx.org Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycdiva79 Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Is this guy for reals? i mean...sex isn't the ONLY reason why you should be with someone....BUT it's pretty much up there!!! in other words...it's pretty damn important!! hahahaI couldn't handle being with someone who would make love only after 8 beers..that is just to crazy! i mean it's all fun while you are both drinking but if that's the ONLY way..then SEE YA...OUT THE DOOR! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baroneb Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 she should get a vibrator, a gigantic black one, then smash him over the head with it if he wont go down.... ------------------"Fools cant see me thats how it is thats how I like it cause thats my biz" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
majesticmelodi Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Originally posted by trippintrance64:Sad story. I love giving oral to girls ...its my favorite....epp....did i say that out loud??well now i could have told u that much... not that i know right hehe------------------"He who laughs last didnt get it""It takes a big man to cry... takes a bigger man to laugh at that man""I sound like a chipmunk!!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
y2chez Posted December 4 Report Share Posted December 4 Maybe she's so hot that he needs those brews to keep him going longer than 1 minute... That's just the positive take on the situation.. ------------------AIM: slimchezdyI'm outta placeI'm in outer spaceI've just vanished without a traceI'm going to a pretty place now where the flowers growI'll be back in an hour or so -- Eminem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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