funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 have you met him before? is he planning on coming here to marry you or will you be going back to India?no, but he's paying for a greencard. i figured i'd have a marriage of convenience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 no, but he's paying for a greencard. i figured i'd have a marriage of convenience.is this what u want or are ur parents making u do this?do u have a choice?why would u wanna marry anyone out of convenience? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 i was born in canada.. i'm an american citizen.. ?...when people use words like "home" and "i'm such and such", i like to hear elaboration...i'm first generation and consider the US my home...i say i'm Greek-American...home for me is where I was born and raised...just wondering why you consider yourself "Indian" and call India home?...just curious...not judging...everyone is different... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 dude i'm kidding, i'm not having an arranged marriage. although i did tell the people at work i was having one so this guy would stop hitting on me.although i don't think that they're all bad. I just don't think I could have one, and my parents have always said we can marry whoever we want. (but they'd prefer the guys be indian)people marry for different reasons, some for security, some for love, some for loneliness, others for money... all depends on what you think a marriage is for and about...my parents had an arranged marriage, and they had the happiest marriage out of any couples i've ever seen. not saying they all work out like that, because they definitely don't.... but it's not impossible for it to work out, depends on your mindset going into it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 no, but he's paying for a greencard. i figured i'd have a marriage of convenience.what if the sex is horrible? is he rich? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elevatedflow Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 what tribe? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 ...i knew this but i was hoping you'd stretch this out a bit for entertainment purposes...now i'll have to go read the stupid shit on miami or jersey...sheesh... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 i knew this also Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 ...when people use words like "home" and "i'm such and such", i like to hear elaboration...i'm first generation and consider the US my home...i say i'm Greek-American...home for me is where I was born and raised...just wondering why you consider yourself "Indian" and call India home?...just curious...not judging...everyone is different...because no matter what, i'll always be considered a foreigner here. People always see or hear my name, they ask where i'm from, if i say dc, that's not what they mean, they mean what country... they see my skin, it's the same thing... If i go to india, i'm a foreigner there, you can tell from the way i walk, talk and act, that i was not raised there. My roots are from india, the values and customs that i grew up with are indian. But in my family, i'm considered too "american".... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 who are u calling dude? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 well now that all the jokes are aside....funksoul, are you into anal sex? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 well now that all the jokes are aside....funksoul, are you into anal sex?no, are you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 funksoul, have you atleast tried it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elevatedflow Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 because no matter what, i'll always be considered a foreigner here. People always see or hear my name, they ask where i'm from, if i say dc, that's not what they mean, they mean what country... they see my skin, it's the same thing... If i go to india, i'm a foreigner there, you can tell from the way i walk, talk and act, that i was not raised there. My roots are from india, the values and customs that i grew up with are indian. But in my family, i'm considered too "american"....Would you possible date a latin man then, since skin color is about the same for latin and indian? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 because no matter what, i'll always be considered a foreigner here. People always see or hear my name, they ask where i'm from, if i say dc, that's not what they mean, they mean what country... they see my skin, it's the same thing... If i go to india, i'm a foreigner there, you can tell from the way i walk, talk and act, that i was not raised there. My roots are from india, the values and customs that i grew up with are indian. But in my family, i'm considered too "american".......sounds like my dad's problem...in the US he has a Greek accent...in Greece, he has an American accent...he doesnt "belong" in either country...sounds like you've had some strife with it at points in your life - that's too bad...you seem like a person that should just be seen as that, a person...do like mimi says, shake it off....sh sh sh shake it off...jk... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 i've dated different races.... it's not really about skin color to me, it's more in the cultures and customs... family values... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 a/s/l yo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 no, are you?I DEF enjoy giving and would NEVER receive although I don't mind an occasional finger or tongue by the ass from my women Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 ...sounds like my dad's problem...in the US he has a Greek accent...in Greece, he has an American accent...he doesnt "belong" in either country...sounds like you've had some strife with it at points in your life - that's too bad...you seem like a person that should just be seen as that, a person...do like mimi says, shake it off....sh sh sh shake it off...jk...it's not such a struggle anymore, but when i was younger, it was kind of confusing.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 a/s/l yo12/m/japanhot, what about you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 because no matter what, i'll always be considered a foreigner here. People always see or hear my name, they ask where i'm from, if i say dc, that's not what they mean, they mean what country... they see my skin, it's the same thing... If i go to india, i'm a foreigner there, you can tell from the way i walk, talk and act, that i was not raised there. My roots are from india, the values and customs that i grew up with are indian. But in my family, i'm considered too "american"....i just call europe home cause it pisses americans off..especially cause i speak english w/o an accent...total mindfuck for them Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted October 12 Author Report Share Posted October 12 a/s/l yo26/male/Boston.... you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
headpusher Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 im sure funks0ul loves all the attention Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elevatedflow Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 it's not such a struggle anymore, but when i was younger, it was kind of confusing..is that what brought you to doing drugs and going clubbing ?! to fill that void of not knowing where you belong? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funks0ul Posted October 12 Report Share Posted October 12 im sure funks0ul loves all the attentiononly if it comes from you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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