ANTONIOVILLA Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 I saw the topic about young guys thoughts about older women. How about vice versa?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 actually, i just met an older guy this weekend. i like the fact that older men have more experience. the only thing i worry about older men is if i'm actually what their looking for. considering that's around the age people think of marriage, and kids, and i'm not thinking about that at all.those are my thoughts on the subject.but i would like to know what older men think about when their dating younger women.are we considered just a fling? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 I was just talking about this with someone...I truly believe that age is just a number...I've dated guys my age and I've dated guys several years older. I'm 21...last year I was dating a 28 year old, and he was the biggest baby I've dated thus far! The nice thing about most older guys is that they have more life experience and probably a good idea of what they want out of life. But that doesn't guarantee maturity! ------------------=) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 I think older guys like young girls more than they like girls their own age. I don't know, maybe age IS just a number. I raised the question about younger guys and older girls b/c the last few guys I've dated have been way younger than me. I think I'm just really immature for my age and I don't want to grow up and a guy younger than me is awesome, but a guy who's in his mid to late thirties doesn't appeal for some reason... Yep, I guess it's a state of mind and it depends on what you're looking for ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
princesssnj Posted August 18 Report Share Posted August 18 I love older guys ------------------HOUSE MUSiC ALL NIGHT LONG..YA HEARDITALiANS DO EVERYTHiNG BETTER!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
exxxotika Posted August 19 Report Share Posted August 19 I love older guys cause AT LEAST they know how to FUCK real good, and age means nothing cause all men are really boys at heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted August 19 Report Share Posted August 19 I'm 24 , i think the oldest i would go for would be like 32, and thats pushing it!!! guys that are too much older dont like to do the same things i do.. and they usually arent on the same level as me..I'd rather intimidate a younger guy...-------------------~Music Is The Answer~ [This message has been edited by neptune (edited 08-18-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie128 Posted August 19 Report Share Posted August 19 hmmm....well i am 20, a 30yr old guy is just NOT what i want!! Ok look i would date older guys, but i just picture that guy that around after-hours is still walking around the club ( SF/ Exit/ or whatever)with his shirt un done half way and gold chains with long gross hair!!!Look, i can not think of a 30 yr old that i am on the same level as...i am an intelligent girl and even i can not picture myself with an experienced man of that age...its just not me, ya know!! i would always feel the lesser ya know!!<33 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTONIOVILLA Posted August 20 Author Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by glowdancer:actually, i just met an older guy this weekend. i like the fact that older men have more experience. the only thing i worry about older men is if i'm actually what their looking for. considering that's around the age people think of marriage, and kids, and i'm not thinking about that at all.those are my thoughts on the subject.but i would like to know what older men think about when their dating younger women.are we considered just a fling?As an older guy myself I think that younger women would not like to deal with older men because they might judge them as being not hip or not on the same level like Neptune said. I think that age is just a number personally. I go more now to afterhours than when I was 21. I guess if I went to places that had the 30 something crowd I would attract that age , but I don't so I don't. Besides I really don't look my age so I have the luxury of dating 20 somethings and 30 somethings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTONIOVILLA Posted August 20 Author Report Share Posted August 20 As far as the fling thing personally I ride the wave sort of speak.....If the person is cool and wants to chill with me, so be it. If the person justs wants a fling, that's OK too. When you meet someone you don't know if this person is your soulmate or just a one night stand ya know?......So you ride the wave and see where it goes.......ne day at a time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sargyros2000 Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 30...all I can say is...age doesn't matter when you are as sexy as he is!------------------then there was you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ILL HOUSE YOU Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 I don't believe ages matters, as long as you find a connection between each other, and there is some sort of maturity level that you are both on...if people can relate age is just a number to a degree obviously...i think being with youngers girls makes you feel somewhat younger at heart, im not that old so I really can't speak from a 30+ point of view...Im pretty free and all about enjoying life, if i can find someone who is the same, regardless of age, who's down to earth and not caught up in a lot of the things most people are today, looking for money, or drugs or material things then it doesn't matter to me...of course money is nice to have but it's not something i look for when looking for a relationship, but gold diggers annoy the shit out of me, no offense -M------------------ "Music is my mistress, and she plays second fiddle to no one." Louis ArmstrongFeelTheseBeats@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
apdiddy Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 everyone's oppinion here seems to be club related, as in older guys cant hang with me or wont be in the scene. there's more to life than afterhrs.------------------deez nuts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rally Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 well ... i'm 31 and i can party, dance and hang with anyone any age! i can keep up with anyone anywhere ... in a club or in a bed! age is a number and only a number ... you just need to meet the right 30 year old to see! Rally Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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