misskittie Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 I decided to do a repost of one of my blow job story. Its kind of crazy how everyday I look at this SEX board and see constant questioning about blow job tehniques. The following story is just something I whipped up lets say. But if you really want to know how to perform oral pleasure with the utmost of skill, I would strongly suggest reading The Joy of Sex books 1 and 2. I learned sooo much from those books to actually improve and enchance many of my sexual styles. They are merely suggestions. As for my repost here it is...EnjoY! Yes people there are a many a names for this wonderful act which many of us chickys perform ever so well but what exactly is it that makes giving head *so damn good*?!?! Well for one, I like to believe that this sensuous act is an art. It sounds so raunchy to hear "blow job" or "face fucking". Come on guys give us some credit. What we do is in fact an art and a beautiful one at that! Okay, ANY idiot can "blow" a guy. We all know this but the thumbs up for oral pleasure from a female to a male comes through a much deeper thought process I like to believe. Besides the actual penis to mouth procedure, there is much more which actually needs to become before you can start. Ok the best oral pleasure preformed on a man (IMO) occurs only when the man is tied down and has no rights of movement. I think that when a female is acting on his penis, he should preferably be wearing ablind fold and hands tied down....most men cant be told to just leave their hands at rest - the temptation for them to move them is too strong. The woman is in control here. Yes she is the dominant and calls all the shots. If a girl is really good, and puts a lot of thought into this, she would make sure to sprinkle a little bit of an oil on the brim of the mask which would be right above the nose. (vanilla, cherry, or strawberry are always a nice choice). The scent will help turn his senses on more and also help him focus on the sensations. This is also why the mask is key. Now setting this all up of course is of the utmost importance. Too many times do you hear (or maybe even see) a girl just unbuckle the guys belt, pop open his button, puuuuull down the zipper, push the undies down a bit and plop the penis over and go to town. OH NO GIRLFRIEND! Not even close. The, IMO, proper procedure will be in the rest of the dialogue to follow... Your man is now lying on the bed naked(or wherever but bed is preferable) with his scented blind fold on and hands tied down. The legs usually start at straight in front of him stretched out. NEVER should the female just got straight for the golden rod. To make it a more sensual act, delicate lip to lip kisses work nicely. You want to build up the anticipation and this does work beautifully. Now, I personally recommend the female (or male) to climb up on her (or his) partner (make sure you are not touching his lower body with yours) and give light kisses. Make sure they are short and sweet. Slowly begin to move your hands around your partners upper body. Caress the arms, the nape of his neck, slide them down his back, around the waste and to the front again. Place another kiss upon his lips and make it a little bit longer then the last. You will continue to move your hands across his upper body (making sure to not be sitting on his lap at any time). Begin to give your partner body kisses. Go from the mouth over to the ear. Play around there for a little bit. Then go back to a lip kiss. Each kiss should gradually get longer and longer adding the tongue after about the 5th or 6th kiss. After playing with his ear for a "short" period of time, go back to the lips and then s l o w l y down to his neck. A little lick here and there with soft sensuous kisses. You should be able to tell how his breathing patterns begin to change. Slide your body backwards so you are able to slide down to his upper body with you mouth. You will give an ncredibley seductive tongue to tongue kiss. Suck on it just for 5 seconds and then pull back. Now you are ready to lick going from his ear, to neck, to the front of the neck (pause for a moment to re-wet) then slide down to his nipples. Suck on them...not too hard but just enough to start the stimulation. Be sure to play with the other nipple by slowly caressing it with your fingers and pulling it up and down. Unfortunately, many women do not realize that the nipples are just as sensitive on men as they are on us. It is an incredible turn on for them.After you kiss and suck on a certain are of the body you just want to remember to return back to the lips. Just to give a little kiss. Add more flavor to each one. Change them up. Make sure to suck on his tongue to give him a sample of what he will be getting down below. Keep the hands moving on the body at all times. You want to make sure you keep him interested and that he is still focusing on all the sensations.The whole "upper body lick, suck and touch" tease should last about an hour. If you can keep him interested that long then you know youre doing it right. The man stays focused because you are constantly moving throughout the body and stimulating different areas. They love the kisses too b/c you keep making them longer and much more sensual. I d recommend, and I should have stated this earlier, but you want to make sure that you too do not have a shirt on. The bottom half of you is unimportant because you are focusing on me. But it is good that when kissing you make sure he feels your breast or chest rub against him. Well Im skipping some of it and going to the belly button now. You want to make a nice longggg lick from the nipples to this spot. Spend some time there. Lick around and around. Do a lil tease shall we say. While licking here, you want to extend your hand down and start carressing the inner part of his thigh. Close to his "prized" area but not touching it! Slow motions up and down against the leg will give him tingles. You will of course give him one final kiss before actually "getting to the artistic part of the evening". Make this kiss the best one you have given him throughout the entire oral session. He wont be getting another one for, well, depends on how long you can keep your mouth going. Slowly move your body down to lick your man's inner thighs. Move in and out. Roll his testicles around in your hand. (hopefully he's shaved nicely lol) As I said earlier, you will want to make sure you keep moving around on his body to keep the stimulation going. I always found this to be key when giving oral pleasure. You may slowly move your tongue down and over to the testicles. From observation, many girls do not give them enough attention or any attention at all. I always liked to go ahead and lick them. You can sort of put them in your mouth (I knwo Im gonna get shit for this now) and sort of move them in and out...but DELICATELY PLEASE! We dont need any sort of injuries. Now while doing this, you will want to go ahead and play with his penis. One hand only....I like to take my forefinger and thumb and slowly glide them up and down the penis starting at the very bottom. Start with little pressure and slowly increase...remember, your still working with the testicles. Try and keep the whole area being worked though. Dont get side tracked which can easily happen if you too get turned on by pleasing him!Soon you should be able to move up to the penis with your mouth. Dont just go and deep throat the damn thing. You gotta work it all out first. Begin at the tip. Dont go below it!! To avoid "teeth" take your lips and sort of fold them over your teeth (once u do this a lot you'll get a hang of it) Now with them folded over, you can basically clasp them over the head of the penis and sort of roll over it. Slightly squeeze the tip with ur lips at the same time you are sucking on them. Move the tongue around in circles (hand should now be rolling his balls around...gently, gently) You want to take your hand which is free and keep it moving up and down with the two before mention fingers while you are sucking the tip of it. While sucking and moving your tongue around, make sure to remove your mouth at times and just move the tip of ur tongue along the tip of the penis very quickly. Back and forth, then quickly suck down a little bit...start getting the speed to increase. (he has been waiting a LONG time after all) Take your tongue and make sure it goes in his hole (dont know what its called but u know what I mean) Start to change the amount of fingers being use to jerk on his golden rod (lol) Keep changing the amount of pressure and speed. You HAVE to pay attention to his reactions and moans. If you want to make it last long, you as the one in control can go ahead and do this with no problem what-so-ever . Whenever you feel ready, you may begin to prceed actually "sucking dick". Dont go all the way down at first...take little baby steps shall we say. You also want to make sure to remove your mouth at times and lick the sides of the penis. Yu DONT have to constantly keep your mouth on it. Take ur fingers and move them up and down along just the side of the penis. Also play with the tip of it. Basically you get the idea. I know Im going to hear shit about this but I dont care..."go suck a dick" (yes there is a pun intended) Im just sharing with everyone. Its pretty easy to know what you should do and Im not suggesting that everyone msut do this...just some ideas and techniques. I think that giving oral pleasure is sometimes much more fun and exciting then actual sex. Theres a whole sensual feeling behind it. Me personally though, I think I like the control. I like making the man I am with feel as though he deserves this. He deserves this sort of pleasure and I, maybe not any of you, but I feel that it is an art. Sexuality and the way we perform for our lover or whomever shows a lot about our intimate beings. Again, this was purely for enjoyment. DONT ask me to show you how its done because I wont. I just thought Id share and I enjoyed writing this. Everyone appecaites sex and the foreplay for different resons. Hope you enjoyed, despite it being so long and me leaving you all hanging in the end....dont need too much excitment around here....xoxokAt ------------------ "The imaginary friends I had as a kid dropped me because their friends thought I didn't exist." - Aaron Machado AOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notforkids Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 sup, kids-This woman is truly, truly gifted in the ancient arts of erotic pleasure... Honor her talent and follow her example, and you will experience true bliss!Indeed, I wonder if even one such as my insatiable self is worthy of her exquisite attentions...And do I even have to say that I *love* the "the man is tied down" part? PEACE,NFKTie Me Up, Lick Me Up------------------You know what I was, you see what I am: change me, change me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... ------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ancientskewl Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Daaaaammmmmmmnnnnn! Gurl!!!U R THE SHIT ------------------"Those who know, don't tell. Those who tell, don't know." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Holy cow.I have just printed this out and posted that on the wall next to my for "next time"Thanks for the info babe!------------------AIM: Spragga25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silveeohh Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 I AM SPEACHLESS.....I AM SPEACHLESSS...I AM SPEACHLESSSS.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quanto_magnus Posted January 9 Report Share Posted January 9 Nice Kat...and that "hole" you refer to is called the urethra (sp?)... ------------------ Hugha.k.a. ibhugh, Bryan Adamsemail: ibhugh@yahoo.comaolim: hugesk8r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris817 Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 THAT IS HOW IT IS DONE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted January 10 Author Report Share Posted January 10 Damn fellas...I would have expected much more from all of you. Im not saying pat me on the back and gimme a thumbs up. But really now, a post with a little bit of thought to it would have been better then what we are getting here.....Last time I write something like that Ill tell ya that much. Positive feedback and negative would be apprecaited. Otherwise if its just going to be a simple "DAMN GIRL" or "THATS HOW ITS DONE", lets keep those comments to ourselves rather then filling up the archives with meaningless posts.Not being mean...just sayin how I feel... >all smiles from this Irish Chicky<------------------ "The imaginary friends I had as a kid dropped me because their friends thought I didn't exist." - Aaron Machado AOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Down Kittie hehe,Sorry that you are disapointed at the lack of response. But I for one really enjoyed your post as well as your posts in general. As one who often gets criticised for having long posts - sometimes rightly I really like a long, thoughtful post and feel the board would be less interesting with only one liners; even the sex board.The message I got from you Kittie - and I agree 100% is that at the end of the day being good at sex isn't about technique or expertise. There are many skills to learn but they are not that hard and anyone interested can learn what is necessary pretty quickly.What is far more important is the mental attitude. Creativity and enthusiasm are everything. If you've got that then you will have the desire to explore, the patience to get things right and the sensitivity to become attuned to your partner's responses. Soon you can be improvising situations every bit as awesome as Kittie's "Blow Job for the ages". Give me one weekend with an enthusiastic girl who has never given head before I'll have her giving better blowjobs than 90% of the girls out there who have given dozens or hundreds of blow jobs.Only a few things I would add to the senario Kittie. I get them from my technique for treating a woman to an awesome, 2 hour pussy licking. I won't go into the details of that but the set up up to the tieing up part would be identical for someone going down on either sex. And Being Tied up is essential for truly spectacular head.Everyone gets more pleasure when they are relaxed. So I start with a shared hot, scented bath or a hot tub. Usually one or two glasses of wine but no more and a shared joint. Skip the weed if its not your thing but for most it will make you so relaxed as well as making all the sensations echo - the orgasm is phenomenal.After the bath take them to the bed. The temperature should be warm so that they are comfrtable naked. Candles and non-interuptive background music are also good. Proceed to give a long full body massage with only a little hint of teasing sexuality at the end. This is primarily to relax them.Then proceed with blindfold and rest of whatever technique you want. Only things that Iwould add to the technique - for a man or a woman - is the use of a few feathers for teasing and tickling and some candles for hot wax. While male nipples are not as sensitive as female ones they are still pretty sensitive and having hot wax dripped and pealed off of them feels pretty damn good.Keep up the awesome posts Kittie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 Down Kittie hehe,Sorry that you are disapointed at the lack of response. But I for one really enjoyed your post as well as your posts in general. As one who often gets criticised for having long posts - sometimes rightly I really like a long, thoughtful post and feel the board would be less interesting with only one liners; even the sex board.The message I got from you Kittie - and I agree 100% is that at the end of the day being good at sex isn't about technique or expertise. There are many skills to learn but they are not that hard and anyone interested can learn what is necessary pretty quickly.What is far more important is the mental attitude. Creativity and enthusiasm are everything. If you've got that then you will have the desire to explore, the patience to get things right and the sensitivity to become attuned to your partner's responses. Soon you can be improvising situations every bit as awesome as Kittie's "Blow Job for the ages". Give me one weekend with an enthusiastic girl who has never given head before I'll have her giving better blowjobs than 90% of the girls out there who have given dozens or hundreds of blow jobs.Only a few things I would add to the senario Kittie. I get them from my technique for treating a woman to an awesome, 2 hour pussy licking. I won't go into the details of that but the set up up to the tieing up part would be identical for someone going down on either sex. And Being Tied up is essential for truly spectacular head.Everyone gets more pleasure when they are relaxed. So I start with a shared hot, scented bath or a hot tub. Usually one or two glasses of wine but no more and a shared joint. Skip the weed if its not your thing but for most it will make you so relaxed as well as making all the sensations echo - the orgasm is phenomenal.After the bath take them to the bed. The temperature should be warm so that they are comfrtable naked. Candles and non-interuptive background music are also good. Proceed to give a long full body massage with only a little hint of teasing sexuality at the end. This is primarily to relax them.Then proceed with blindfold and rest of whatever technique you want. Only things that Iwould add to the technique - for a man or a woman - is the use of a few feathers for teasing and tickling and some candles for hot wax. While male nipples are not as sensitive as female ones they are still pretty sensitive and having hot wax dripped and pealed off of them feels pretty damn good.Keep up the awesome posts Kittie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted January 10 Author Report Share Posted January 10 Im down Im down.... {prrrrrr'ing}.I actually wrote you a PM Mr Dick. That is one of the BEST posts I have seen on here in a longggggg time. Most seem to be just perverted little statements here and there...but that, oh yea, that was what I was looking for.KUDOS TO YOU! >applause<kAt ------------------ "The imaginary friends I had as a kid dropped me because their friends thought I didn't exist." - Aaron Machado AOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
notforkids Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 sup, kids-Yes, NONE of you are worthy of Kittie's goddess-like affections. Not even contenders... pitiful...And sirdante! You disappoint me the most, my friend...mrdick, however, has proved himself to be yet another inspiring addition to the Sex Board!!! I understand, mrdick, that you are a good friend of lexxxi and porn! Well, then, we share mutual partners in crimes of passion!Well, when I have my own place in a month or two and you all come down here to visit, I assure you that we will all be getting into the most spectacular, raunchiest, whippingest, debauchingest, nipple clampingest, roman orgiest, downright craziest and fan-FUCKING-tastic time EVER!!!And kiddies - when using candles, avoid beeswax at all costs! It burns so hot that it leaves scars... trust me...PEACE,NFKNone Of Your...------------------You know what I was, you see what I am: change me, change me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sirdante Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 sorrrrr-reee...forgive me, misskittie, for thinking you might actually talk about blow jobs bc you like giving pleasure... not bc you only do it to get something in return! now we are both disappointed apparently, misskittie is a fraud. if she really knew how to do all of those things, she would understand that a truely satisfied man can only utter "perverted little statements" after a good BJ!anyway...i am just kidding! seriously, i was mightily impressed with everything you said. it inspired me to put up a silly post ("all of the women on this board are freaks"). i wrote that immediately after reading this, but the board went down yesterday and i never got it onto the server actually, your advanced techinques are really inspirational. i should write a sequel to my old cunniligus post. that old post was for an oral sex newbie. maybe now i should present the advanced version. (especially since mysteriousss tells us its not just about the tongue-- duh! no kidding.)i do have to disagree with the blindfold technique you mention. the blindfold is a better fantasy element when used on a woman. on a man its got an opposite effect. we are more interested in the visuals of sex. cover our eyes and we might start thinking about baseball. just MHO, but i wonder if other guys agree with me on this.i really like your point about moving around. its something i would never have thought to mention, but now that you mention it... mmmmm. i love it when the girl is moving around. again however, i think its the visual aspect that makes that so wonderful. is there really anything prettier than a gorgeous female ass bouncing all around as she gives you TOTAL ORAL PLEASURE?------------------i love music! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 I'm still thinking about that blowjob.I thiink I'll tatoo the story on my stomach and inner thighs so the next girl who gets there will know what to do. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twilogoddess Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Misskittie,Half way thru ur post, I thought to myself "Y am I readin this, I give amazin head!" Tying the guy up is good but how bout pouring hot honey all over his cock & licking it off? mmmmmmmmmmmmmmyummy --------------Madness, Power, Domination! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silveeohh Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 See...now that's what i'm talking about!!!Now i just get more ideas that i can use wit chicks i'm with!ROCK ON T-GODDESS STAY GOLD!!! What up mrdick? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by misskittie:Damn fellas...I would have expected much more from all of you. Im not saying pat me on the back and gimme a thumbs up. But really now, a post with a little bit of thought to it would have been better then what we are getting here.....Last time I write something like that Ill tell ya that much. Positive feedback and negative would be apprecaited. Otherwise if its just going to be a simple "DAMN GIRL" or "THATS HOW ITS DONE", lets keep those comments to ourselves rather then filling up the archives with meaningless posts.Not being mean...just sayin how I feel... >all smiles from this Irish Chicky< Sorry!------------------AIM: Spragga25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Twilogoddess,If I bring the honey and the rest of the "equipment" you can bring you Of course if you feel lonely and want to bring a friend - well... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 I hear all talk from the peeps in here...no action!------------------AIM: Spragga25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted January 12 Author Report Share Posted January 12 Oh goodness...look what has happened! hahaIm sorry guys but today I am home sick and not feeling anywhere near sexual. Interesting how this has taken a bit of a spin though do to Twilogoddess.....I myself have tried the honey but feel it gets a lil too messy for me. I have tried lots of different food though. Ice cream, fudge, whip crem. They are all nice little additives but when using food Id rather not put it on him anymore. When Im really digging a guy I will perform and at the same time feed him some delightful treats such as strawberries, grapes, cherries, or cut up tangerine. Being blindfolded, they have no idea whats coming next. From observation, they love it. But then again, I havent performed in a while so it may be outdated now...lol.See yas in the bedroom... ------------------ "The imaginary friends I had as a kid dropped me because their friends thought I didn't exist." - Aaron Machado AOL = MadamKittE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twilogoddess Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Kittie has ur man ever used a cock ring? It makes & keeps them rock hard...for a longer period of time My ex complained that it hurt so to combat the prob....I wrapped a velvet scrunchie around 2x & it did the job. U gotta try a cock ring or the scrunchie technique its GREAT! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexxxi Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Damn KittE...nice job!!! I believe in a method like yours too BUT I also love the Fuck Fest Blow Job...no teasing just pure animal cock sucking. Taking that pipe and shoving it down your throat as far as possible. As PORN once said "A blow job is always better when the bitch is gagging". Kinda nasty thought but it's great fun nonetheless. I guess it's just dependant on the mood I'm in I guess!!!As for you NFK...as soon as you have that Palace of Shame ready to go, PORN and I will be knocking on your door!!! You can count on that!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Lexxxi has it right. Its all about variety. There is room for much fun I would add that its the finish that seperates the women from the girls. Once again variety rules and there a great many ways to finish. But what counts is style and enthusiasm. More that you look like love the jets of hot spunk flying out of us - wherever they might be flying - the more jets you are gonna see. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blaze65 Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 OK Miss Kittie, I live in Little Falls. I think you must do a demonstration for me as I sort of fell asleep reading your post! LOL Hopefully you can keep my attention! See you soon! P.S. I like grapes best! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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