aboyfrombklyn Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I've been seeing this girl lately and we have had sex numerous times, but she refuses to get into oral. I'm not even just talking about her going down on me. She doesn't like the idea of me going down on her either. I did it once recently, but it seemed like she was uncomfortable, so I stopped. I could understand if someone didn't like it because of certain issues in their past, but how could someone not enjoy the feeling? I think it has something to do with issues in her past (which we won't get into), but does anyone else out there not like oral?------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Well, I personally like oral, but, can it be maybe because she doesn't feel comfortable yet to do that maybe?? I don't know?Maybe she's self conscious about it??? Have u talked to her about it?------------------ ARE YOU FEELING IT?_________________________clubchick20@hotmail.comAim: Romina321 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Yeah, I spoke to her about it. It's a really long story, has something to do with her past. From what she told me, I can understand why she wouldn't wanna do it, but then I don't understand why she would sleep with me.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Well, having sex with her and oral are 2 different things. I mean, when u have sex, its not like your "right there all up close to her" ya know? actually, when i first started havin sex, i would never let him go down on me, even after we had sex! I felt self conscious and not really that comfortable,knowing that it was like "full vision" of me or whatever? i mean, i even refused to get all naked for sex even!!! Its wierd!! how long have u been w/ her? romy20------------------ ARE YOU FEELING IT?_________________________clubchick20@hotmail.comAim: Romina321 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aphelion Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 It's very possible.. I've been in the same situation. It bothered me throughtout the relationship. The girl had no problem having sex any place and in every way you could imagine, but would not do the oral thing. She was pretty religious, and hinted that had something to do with it.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 I kinda know her reason for not wanting to do it. She had a pretty fucked up past. I was just curious if there are people who actually don't enjoy it.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 if shes had a fucked up past, then there you go.... i mean, personally, i cannot get enough of oral... oh god... but i mean of course there have to be some people who don't like it, for whatever reasons they have... but shit... will they be here in the dungeons?? lol.... i dunno... ------------------ life's a ride... pack light...AIM: dELERiUM 540 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swiswi Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 well, i havent been eaten out by too many people, and i think its mainly because i dont really think it feels all that good. it was a big disapointment even at that my first time. the first time i thought "well maybe its just him.. maybe he doesnt know what hes doing", then the second guy, i was like, "well ok, maybe hes not so great at it either.. bad luck" then when it happend again the third time, i began to think it was me, and i gave up. but still, when im with someone new, i always give them a chance, and ive only found maybe 2 guys that can do it for me. so maybe thats whats wrong? it could also be that she cant enjoy it because like most women, shes very self concious (spelling?) about how she smells, tastes etc. ------------------i wanna see! i wanna see!:::GRRR be nice::: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happykittn Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 It's possible. I personally know of two girls who were sexually abused when they were younger. One had an uncle who would perform oral sex on her (when she was 8 years old), and another had an even worse past (won't get into details).Neither of them get ANY pleasure out of having oral sex performed on them. As most of you know, intimate acts (intercourse, oral, etc.) are largely mental/emotional for most women. Your girl might be into it physically, but if she isn't into it mentally or emotionally, she won't enjoy it at all.What she needs is counseling - you can do your best, but in serious cases of past abuse, professional help is necessary.Good luck and best wishes,~kitten------------------The purpose of life? To die young as late as possible. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 I do know that my skills aren't the problem. Not saying I'm great at it, but she never gave me the chance to do it. I went down south once and I stopped around 10 seconds after I started. It's a long story, but she's insecure when it comes to other people touching her.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swiswi Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 if im understanding what ur saying, you know why she doesnt want you to.. or you have a pretty good idea, but your looking for other possibilities? am i right? well, then im thinking... why dont you just ask her? im kinda confused here?------------------i wanna see! i wanna see!:::GRRR be nice::: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 i know some girls who don't like to give oral cuz they don't know if what they're doing is right and they feel ackward and stupid.------------------ GRAVITY is my bitch..don't let this he/she say otherwise!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale77 Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 As much as I love receivng oral, I don't like it. It feels amazing but I if I'm not comfortable with the person, all I think about is cumming so that they can get the hell outta there and you know what happens when you do that....NOTHING! And then they just end up staying down there even longer! Ahhhhh!!! Maybe with time she'll cum around and be more willing to let you venture down south a bit more often. ------------------You're only young once Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 Some girls, can grow up to hate oral. Maybe her first partner or second or fifth, never did it to her, or asked for it. And so it became something that was strange to do. It will take a while till she likes it! blondie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goddessoflove Posted June 4 Report Share Posted June 4 Really? Wow! I am genuinely surprised by this... The idea of not liking oral is inconceivable to me... I mean maybe giving it isn't for everyone, but receiving!?! Hmmm... Bad experience or personal issues notwithstanding, she needs help. Show her the light, boyfrombrooklyn!XO,G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted June 5 Author Report Share Posted June 5 Oh, believe me, I would if I could!!------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gastritis Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 good luck captain ------------------"hey?, It's me?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 6 Report Share Posted June 6 Originally posted by goddessoflove:Really? Wow! I am genuinely surprised by this... The idea of not liking oral is inconceivable to me... I mean maybe giving it isn't for everyone, but receiving!?! Hmmm... Bad experience or personal issues notwithstanding, she needs help. Show her the light, boyfrombrooklyn!XO,GYeah, what she said!------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deelicious80 Posted June 12 Report Share Posted June 12 well, i dont hate it, but its nothing special ive been cursed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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