ges1999 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Say you meet a man and he is cute and you are attracted to him. Do you make the first move on him.... or do you wait for him even though you really like him, will you wait for his move. But of he doesn't make that move will you be turned off, because he is a little shy. Well thats the problem I'm having. I am the guy who is a little shy, but I work with her that is one of the main reasons I keep debating the issue. HELP!!! [This message has been edited by ges1999 (edited 09-20-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paranoidandroid Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 invite him out with a bunch of friends casually - he'll soon figure it out.------------------==================================================he he he he ha ha - but this is no laughing matter Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bre5379 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 If I like a guy alot and feel like he likes me I will make the first move. It depends on how comfortable I feel. I don't think it is a turn off if a guy is shy. I think that is cute!! Don't worry. Just take your time. You will be fine! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangela Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 make the first move, if he doesn't get the hint, bang his best friend & kick him in his nuts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ges1999 Posted September 20 Author Report Share Posted September 20 I am the guy who is having the problem being shy....Just to clear that up. Thanks for the replys though Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allday420_2000 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 tackle his ass and rip his clothes off and sex him down just kiddin... i agree with xs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bre5379 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Don't worry Ges. Like I said just take your time. Don't rush anything and feel uncomfortable. You know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shinedancer Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Make the first move...you'll know soon enough one way or the other if he is interested!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 I would make the first move. I believe in making things happen . . .not waiting for it.BlueAngel------------------"Live as if your were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Nothing wrong with making the first move. That's flattering to any guy. Another thing - guys are really bad at picking up those vibes and cannot really tell if a girl likes them or not. So just ask him out Good luck )) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fatchikthrilla Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Grow some balls, Godammit!If you think this little chickenhead likes u, why then, by all means make dat move.Here's what u do. Grab her by her neck, take ur tongue, and stick it down her throat. Then u grab her ass and.......ooops, sorry getting carried away there.Remember, the goal is to " Hit those skins, knock those boots, close that deal"hope this helps Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allday420_2000 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by mysteriousss:Nothing wrong with making the first move. That's flattering to any guy. Another thing - guys are really bad at picking up those vibes and cannot really tell if a girl likes them or not. So just ask him out Good luck ))oh you are soooooo right. i'm the biggest chicken here probably. it could be slappin me in the face and i'd still be clueless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by allday420_2000: oh you are soooooo right. i'm the biggest chicken here probably. it could be slappin me in the face and i'd still be cluelessAre you m/f? Get some balls in any case Could miss out on some great times.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ges1999 Posted September 20 Author Report Share Posted September 20 Well one of the reasons its hard because I work with her and she is one my new co-workers, so there is reasons on why I haven't made that move. Its hard if you have to work with that person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
back2basics Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by blueangela:make the first move, if he doesn't get the hint, bang his best friend & kick him in his nuts.I can see your going to be fun ------------------I want to go out blazing not fade away.I can resist anything but temptation. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by ges1999:Well one of the reasons its hard because I work with her and she is one my new co-workers, so there is reasons on why I haven't made that move. Its hard if you have to work with that person Work is different. Does your company have a policy on dating coworkers? If yes, then it sucks. If no, go for it.. Or at least try to hang out with her as much as possible and see if she's interested at all. Without being blunt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ges1999 Posted September 20 Author Report Share Posted September 20 I'M a MALE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by ges1999:I'M a MALEDon't mind me. I'm losing my mind. You said she a few times in your post. I used she too. Losing it I'm telling ya.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allday420_2000 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 easy there mysteriousss, i've got balls alright just hate rejection like nobodies business. are you m or f? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by allday420_2000:easy there mysteriousss, i've got balls alright just hate rejection like nobodies business. are you m or f?hehe, sorry everyone hates rejection. that doesn't mean that you have to be scared of asking someone out. i'm f. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lightinggirl Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 Originally posted by blueangela:make the first move, if he doesn't get the hint, bang his best friend & kick him in his nuts.oh no you didn't........that is HILARIOUS.....you go girl!!!!!!!!!!!------------------lightinggirl@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vampienyc10 Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 I think you should make a move...., Don;t be too aggressive though, it scares guys away, it is better to do it now rather than wondering about what if.... ------------------vampienyc10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 blueangela - ouch! you're a vicious one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artful Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 initiation is the key to success.------------------ <I'm a Fire-starter> --- When the Artful speaksHAPPY HALLOWEEN!!! "Takin' out the suckas, and they don't know how I did it!!!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lightinggirl Posted September 20 Report Share Posted September 20 hey B2B.i agree with ya...i like this new blueangela.she fits in well with us.........------------------lightinggirl@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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