lolly Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Ok guys....tell me the truth.I have been my man for over a year and this is my problem.Way too often he is finished before I even start to get into the groove. Does this mean he has some sort of problem, or do I just excite him too much? Whenever this happens he feels sooo horrible and will "finish" me in other ways....that I DEFINTELY don't mind. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karde Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 He just has to learn self control, you can find books and even stuff on the internet to teach methods of self control. Easiest way to keep us from blowing our load is to change the rythm often.------------------My humble Webpage: http://www.geocities.com/kardes_ss/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lola591 Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 yup, he has to learn the beauty of self control.lola ------------------i know u wanna dance, i wanna c u sweat, i wanna c how freaky u can get...baby take me higher!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ibhugh Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 More than likely a self control issue. There are lots o' helper books out there. And yes, changing rythm often helps...Can he get it up again after. It's much harder for guys to go a second time really quickly, so if he's got quick recovery, then just let him do the first one and work it on the second time around. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wellhung Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Thank god, I'm not the only one w/ that problem!------------------I like BIG BUTTS and I cannot lie.......you other brothas can't deny!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 It totally blows when a guy gets done too fast! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karde Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 I like to take a couple hours on a chick when we are in the mood. Makes cumming at the end amazing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ricfutures Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 He should pleasure you in other ways first then, and when you're ready to bust, he should jump you and ride you off into the sunset... It also depends on how long you have been sexually active with guy. Sometimes the first couple of times I'm with a new chick I'll bust in like 5 minutes. My problem is that when I'm used to being with her, I can't cum at all sometimes. Especially when we are doing it everyday twice a day. Then they start to feel unactractive. They start to get sore cause I'm still going at it and they're like what the fuck? CUM ALREADY!!! I don't give a shit about busting sometimes but I don't like it when they start to feel insecure. I love making girl cum. It's enough enjoyment for me. ------------------Neo: You ever have that feeling where you're not sure if you're awake or still dreaming?Choi: All the time. It's called mescaline, it's the only way to fly. -Ricfutures Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divvalicious Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 i would let it slide the first couple times..but then he better be ready for round 2 right away..or figure out some other way------------------~~PaRt TiMe AngEL PaRt tImE DeViL~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeydollaz Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 well personally i liek to getteh girl off before we even have sex , for a few reasons a) she gets off and this situation is avoided she saoking wet c) i like to , i enjoy gettinig a girl off another solution is ... if i know or think i'm gonna bust real fast no matter how much i try to hold i'll just tell her i'm gonna shoot this one and get a new hat and go back in ... when that happens u'll def finish her off before u cum again ... only problem is sometimes tehhead is so sensitive after cumming the first time , it could almost hurt a lil to put it back in , but hey , a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do , especially if u wanna have sex with the girl again ... anyways my $0.02-dollar------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frodo Posted November 3 Report Share Posted November 3 Having sex more often and more than onceworks.Nobody can come in 5 min if he did it3-5x yesterday and 2x today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kylerule Posted November 6 Report Share Posted November 6 tell him to rub one out before you show up..------------------Legendary pain in the ass, woman chaser & ass grabber...sleep by day and sleep with others by night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 I take it IMO! That you do excite him too much!! It happens to me with my man! Try using those creams that the guy puts on his "man=hood" that makes him not feel anything or something like that.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jolie21 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Originally posted by ricfutures:Sometimes the first couple of times I'm with a new chick I'll bust in like 5 minutes. My problem is that when I'm used to being with her, I can't cum at all sometimes. I was seeing a guy for a year who was the total opposite. At first he lasted forever. Then the more we got into the relationship he would ask me not to move or talk or anything because he'd come in two pumps. No joke. He would be soooo embarrassed. I loved him so it didn't matter as long as he took care of me first, but WTF!------------------"This is the strangest life I've ever known" - Jim Morrison Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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