beautious1 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Sometimes, I just don't want to have sex When it's 11:30 pm, and I have to work the next day, and my boyfriend is trying to get some, I just want to roll over and go to sleep... Is there something wrong with me? Am I turning prude or something? ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 lol...no sweetie..you are not turning prude....you are tired and just want to go to sleep.....we all enjoy sex more when we have energy and the right mood........right ....don't stress it hun......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Haha, it happened a few times with me But I'm pretty easy to wake up, if you know what I mean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleboybleu Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 i do that sometimes too. and my g/f gets pissed b/c shes horny and im too tired. so i told her try getting up at 5am every morning, working to 3-4. and then come home to clean the house, shop, cook, etc. and go to bed at around 10 or so and see how you tired you are. (damn i sounded like a little bitch there) ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jolie21 Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 I don't know how old you are, but I used to be like that in my early 20s. As I got older, my sex drive increased. Regardless, if you're tired, you're tired and sometimes sleep wins out. Nothing wrong with that as long as it doesn't happen often.------------------"This is the strangest life I've ever known" - Jim Morrison Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautious1 Posted November 7 Author Report Share Posted November 7 Originally posted by littleboybleu:i do that sometimes too. and my g/f gets pissed b/c shes horny and im too tired. so i told her try getting up at 5am every morning, working to 3-4. and then come home to clean the house, shop, cook, etc. and go to bed at around 10 or so and see how you tired you are. (damn i sounded like a little bitch there) EXACTLY....That's what I tell him, but nooooo, he just doesn't understand, he thinks I don't find him sexy enough Oh brother! Sleep is very important to me...I'm 21, and I hope my sex drive increases, or else my man is in trouble!!! ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Hey, i'll take it whenever I can get it at this point (meaning if I'm dating someone and we're doing the nasty)...I've become way more horny now that I'm older....I don't know how I'd be if I were living with someone, though. I don't know, even in the past when I've been sleeping I've always been persuaded.....------------------ Boink like a bunny!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 sometimes i would get tired, or i drank way too much, in which case i would just use my tongue. i never turned down a girl i was with.....call me considerate, but when someones in the mood, i just gotta do something for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeydollaz Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 not for nuttin sometimes guys are too tired to have sex too ya know ... i mean i guess we're easier to convince but i definaltly think sometimes i would be toooo tired to do anything ... i guess of course if u feel like doing all the work maybe ... blow jobs on the other hand i dont think i could ever be too tired for but when your done dont be surprised if i'm asleep when u look up ! ..=) jus kiddin ... ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sinergygrl Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 It is perfectly normal for women int their early twenties to be too tired or not be in the mood. There is so much stress and different things going on in our lives that we get worn out. I think men handle their stress and all that stuff differently. As we get older things will get better, we don't hit our prime till we are in our 40's. Go figure... men hit thiers when they are 16-23. -SIN------------------I'm going to a pretty place now where the flowers grow.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Originally posted by petp:call me considerate, but when someones in the mood, i just gotta do something for them. You said it as if being considerate is a bad thing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 nope, not at all, i didnt mean it to come out like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ibhugh Posted November 7 Report Share Posted November 7 Don't worry about it.... My gf has been to tired before... No big. The guy may be annoyed cause he's gonna hafta wait till another day, but I'm sure he's had dry spells before, so he can wait a damn 18 hours or something like that. As men get older they begin to understand these things, cause some of them will get tired too. I've been tired myself, although I try to do what I can to make my gf happy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rj752000 Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Originally posted by beautious1: EXACTLY....That's what I tell him, but nooooo, he just doesn't understand, he thinks I don't find him sexy enough Oh brother! Sleep is very important to me...I'm 21, and I hope my sex drive increases, or else my man is in trouble!!! hey there...how is everything? Job? was thinking about you....have a good day ------------------"Come closer to the speakers so I can see the light in your eyes...""When the sun comes up, I have morals again...." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misskittie Posted November 8 Report Share Posted November 8 Youre not getting prude or loosing the sexual drive youre just tired.Hell i wish Ihad your problem though...lol. I personally will take it anytime, anyplace...but not by anyone!Dont worry about it though. Tell him you'll make it up to him another day with a special little romp around. Those are always funn...(hmm thinking) Anyway, dont worry...it happens to everyone...------------------ "Love is friendship set to music." ...E. Joseph Crossmann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aljedynak Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 No, you're not a prude. Reality sucks. Life is work, eat, sleep. Sex is something you have to work in. The best time of your life is when you are in school (college age) with no job and no worries. You can screw 4-5 times a day. I can't wait to hit my peak when I'm older. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lola591 Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 hell yeah girl...i go through that too.lola ------------------i know u wanna dance, i wanna c u sweat, i wanna c how freaky u can get...baby take me higher!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ANTONIOVILLA Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 Originally posted by beautious1:Sometimes, I just don't want to have sex When it's 11:30 pm, and I have to work the next day, and my boyfriend is trying to get some, I just want to roll over and go to sleep... Did you tell him you were tired? Or did you just say no?.....Let me ask you something? What if he told you he was tired and you wanted some?....What would you do??..... My advice......Don't do it often because he will find satisfaction somewhere else.....If he already hasn't........I don't know how old he is, but I'm just giving my thoughts and perspective to when I was 20 something Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ItakeX Posted November 10 Report Share Posted November 10 I went through that with my ex...he was younger than me. Every time I wanted to sleep he would nudge me and start touching me. It got to the point sometimes I would pretend to already be sleeping..LOL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexxxi Posted November 11 Report Share Posted November 11 We all go through this. Human nature. It's all very simple.....sometimes you want to and sometimes you don't. The key is that the "sometimes you want to" should occur more often than the "sometimes you don't". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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