powerpuff Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 EX meaning ex BF GF....just curious what you all think??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Friends with benefits = having a relationship with friend throwing in sex when convenient.Ex-sex = unfinished business.BlueAngel------------------"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." — Andre Gide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jammy Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 So true Casey...ahem, not like I would know ...-Jamms "icantfindmybenefitscard"------------------Wo ist die Partei? AIM: ynicholas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
artful Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 that's it alright, Casey.------------------ <I'm a Fire-starter><Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee!!> <I got the glow, baby!!Can ya feel it?!? Now back up and give me some dancin' room!!>--- When the Artful speaks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drfunk Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 friends with benefits -- goodex sex -- bad (well maybe not the sex, but the consequences)------------------No eternal reward will forgive us now for wasting the dawn...Jim Morrison Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
risa06 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by drfunk:friends with benefits -- goodex sex -- bad (well maybe not the sex, but the consequences)yep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
powerpuff Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 POINT WELL MADE BLUE ANGEL!!!(clapping)we've all been guilty of...i know i have.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by ephor:ladies lookin for friend with benefit PM me Who are you? And why are you not on the sex board?BlueAngel------------------"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." — Andre Gide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubcutie25 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Friend with benefits can be any friend that u decide to have sex with when convient...ex sex is when u guys have a history... its gets too complicated and isn't worth it. ------------------If you're always up, you must be on something!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 hm, why do you have to put a label on everything? just leave it as it is, whatever it isSOME GREAT FUCKING!! ------------------it's not simply cool but its the best way yet to make it throughsome errors happen they won't go awaywon't make us men in marked todayit has best considered as the greatestyet remembered as the one who had not so much funas those who had not yet begun to get it rightain't nothing wrongeverything all right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melichacha Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by drfunk:friends with benefits -- goodex sex -- bad (well maybe not the sex, but the consequences)Yep yep... - Cuban B - ------------------ "This is not political - it's just that I demand attention when I walk into the room..." -- Nelly FurtadoAIM: MeliChaCha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boa_boy Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 if and ONLY if you TRULLY have a break up with your significant other where u remain friends can "sex with the ex" work, then the same FWF (friend who fuck) rules apply....more often than not the latter model suggested is easier and potentially less messy (lol I think this is the 3rd or maybe 4th time we've gone into this topc on the board)------------------If only he'd use his power for good instead of evil............... boa_boy@yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolly Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Ok, well I need to ask you all if you think "friend with benefits" has any potential for further relationship progression? Consider this. You have had a "friend w/ benefits" for over a year. You really like this friend and want it to progress to more. Do you bring it up or would that just make things awkward? Have any of you ever had a friend with benefits that actually turned into a great relationship??------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boa_boy Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by lolly:Ok, well I need to ask you all if you think "friend with benefits" has any potential for further relationship progression? Consider this. You have had a "friend w/ benefits" for over a year. You really like this friend and want it to progress to more. Do you bring it up or would that just make things awkward? Have any of you ever had a friend with benefits that actually turned into a great relationship??most definitely, the most significant relationship I've been in went thru many different stages including pre and post seriousness FWF...if that makes any sense over the course of 2.5 years many different "ways" of being together were explored lol------------------If only he'd use his power for good instead of evil............... boa_boy@yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
powerpuff Posted March 22 Author Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by lolly:Ok, well I need to ask you all if you think "friend with benefits" has any potential for further relationship progression? Consider this. You have had a "friend w/ benefits" for over a year. You really like this friend and want it to progress to more. Do you bring it up or would that just make things awkward? Have any of you ever had a friend with benefits that actually turned into a great relationship??actually mine was other way around....i had a really good firend for 3 years....we finally slept together over the summer a few times and then decided against it. things never got wierd between us. it was really odd but good in a sense....b/c he's still one of my best friends. go figure?? so say if you guys have a good realtionship by all means bring it up, if it matters to you!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolly Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 WEll the deal is, is that we were kinda friends beforehand. Then we started hooking up, then the sex started. This was over a year ago. Over the course of the year we have grown to become the best of friends, but with those little extra benefits, ya know?? I have wanted so bad for the relationship to progree further, but I am too scared to bring it up for fear of scaring him away all together. We ARE such good friends though that I know I wouldn't totally scare him away. I just don't want it to get awkward between us, b/c when I think about it, yes, we are great friends.... that have sex. But in the same respect we are also in that "don't ask, don't tell" sort of relationship. Meaning, we can hook up w/ other people but we just don't ask about it. THis has been racking my brain ever since day 1. My friends are all convinced we will be together eventually but I am just too much of a wuss to bring the subject up with him.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by blueangel:Friends with benefits = having a relationship with friend throwing in sex when convenient.Ex-sex = unfinished business.BlueAngelI agree!!!!But the EX SEX may be too good to let go also !!!!! IMO------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by powerpuff:EX meaning ex BF GF....just curious what you all think??? Well, since I am about the have sex with my ex, and that relationship started as friends with benefits...I will let you all know the difference tomorrow!!!------------------ The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ooana Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Couldn't have said it better myself.-Oo Originally posted by blueangel:Friends with benefits = having a relationship with friend throwing in sex when convenient.Ex-sex = unfinished business.BlueAngel------------------ "When the soul wishes to experience something, she throws an image of the experience out before her, and enters into her own image." -Eckhart"I heard of a man that says words so beautiful that if he only speaks their name, women give themselves to him.If I am dumb by your body while silence blossoms like tumors on our lips it is because I hear a man climb the stairs and clear his throat outside our door." - Leonard Cohen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mugwump Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 sex is ALWAYS "beneficial" in mugwumps book!nothing like a big O to put a smile on mug's mug! (ex or no ex) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vejita Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Friend with benefits = a good thing -- there's no illusions about being in a relationship.Oh, and once again, I have sig envy -- nice new one, Artful. -------------------=Vejita=-"Live through the week. Live for the weekend."AIM: vvRMR , EMAIL: vejita1975@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by deanna11:hm, why do you have to put a label on everything? just leave it as it is, whatever it isSOME GREAT FUCKING!! Agreed... That would be my defintion... I think that it also does not trigger jealousy!!! Unless you want it that night... ------------------Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by glowgirl: But the EX SEX may be too good to let go also !!!!! IMOThat's why it would be unfinished business. BlueAngel------------------"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." — Andre Gide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by blueangel: That's why it would be unfinished business. BlueAngelbut what if technically he's just great and you are able to sever all emotional ties? (very unlikely for most people, but possible) could it then be finished business and just sex? damn, i want some more exes------------------it's not simply cool but its the best way yet to make it throughsome errors happen they won't go awaywon't make us men in marked todayit has best considered as the greatestyet remembered as the one who had not so much funas those who had not yet begun to get it rightain't nothing wrongeverything all right Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by deanna11: but what if technically he's just great and you are able to sever all emotional ties? (very unlikely for most people, but possible) could it then be finished business and just sex? damn, i want some more exesWell . . . once two people has a history together, it VERY, VERY difficult for BOTH people to sever all emotional ties.HOWEVER if they were able to do that then I guess it would just be sex. But to tell you the truth "Just Sex" is no fun at all. Even for "Friends With Benefits" you have other elements that come into play. You have certain types of passion and passion always involve . . . even if it's to the smallest degree . . . some emotional element. Say for example, two complete stranger just go at it . . . there's the passion and the element of the whole thing being very mysterious and getting a kick outta that. See?In my opinion . . . "Just Sex" is never just sex.BlueAngel------------------"It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not." — Andre Gide Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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