musicbeat Posted June 27 Report Share Posted June 27 the idea is that some girls have this fantasy that only an older, experienced guy might "do" her rightso let's see, if u're 21 would you take a test ride on a 32 years old guy?? 40?? 45?I know that the Playboy guy doesn't have any problem getting young things(he's like 70 or something) but im sure that's because the lifestyle that he represents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jammy Posted June 27 Report Share Posted June 27 Well the oldest I have ever went out with was 33. And frankly, older does not necessarily mean wiser . Apparently, because of my personality, my maturity level is at 30 y.o.(yikes)!!! You just have to take it on an individual basis. I take each person as a person and not a person that should be fitting a mold depending on age, race, height, etc. I do tend to notice though that I "think" I have gotten over the frat boy yuppy stage rather quickly. I am more interested someone for "refined". -Jamms "weareallpinkontheinside" ------------------MUSIC is one thing...but soul is another...sapete Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 27 Report Share Posted June 27 Rarely am I attracted to a man substantially older than me. My boyfriend is four years older than me, which is pretty insignificant, but he's the first guy I had dated in years that wasn't younger than me.------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted June 27 Report Share Posted June 27 well an older man for me, being that i'm 33, would be ancient...ha ha!! and i don't like old. i like 'em young...the younger the better...heh heh....i love da young boyzzz!------------------ Boink like a bunny!uknj@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lisarose Posted June 27 Report Share Posted June 27 nah... i like them my age or younger. i'm 25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Originally posted by musicbeat:but im sure that's because the lifestyle that he representsThats EXACTLY what it is.Also can be a status symbol her friends can see.------------------DJmikeDR@aol.com aim: DJmikeDR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 i like older men that are successful...that's the key. i've dated someone that was a lil' over 10 yrs. older than me, but he doesn't look it..which is also a key. from now on 10 yrs. is da limit!!------------------ *make a pussy wet* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Naaahhh I like my men young and crisp On a more serious note: I'm just so totally not attracted to older men. Don't know what it is but the guys I've been with were usually my age or maybe even a bit younger. I've been with a guy who was 4 years older than me and mentally he was like 40...so no thanks and then, he treated me like a little girl, and was always trying to 'protect' me from the mistakes everyone has to make in life. I'm more comfortable in a relationship were I feel like a valued partner in an equal share.------------------ AIM: flying77highEmail:flying77high@yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Well . . . when I was 18 I dated a guy who was 32. That was the eldest guy that I have ever dated.At the time it wasn't good for me cause I was way too immature. I mean the guy was great, but I wased mature enough to appreciate it.However, I know a girlfriend of mine who is 30 and she's dating a guy who's 41 and they're doing great! I think it's because she's mature, who appreciate mature men. BlueAngel------------------“When I hear somebody sigh, ‘Life is hard,’ I am always tempted to ask, ‘compared to what?’” -Anonymous Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitkatt Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Older men. Always, not by much though. Between 3 & 7 yrs..... enough to be on the same maturity/emotional level. I must admit though, as of late, I'm finding myself more and more attracted to the older/polished look. Dunno, maybe it's a power thing, or maybe it's me that's getting old. ------------------"Limits Exist Only In Your Mind" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyo Posted June 28 Report Share Posted June 28 Hmmm, my current b/f is 26 (I'm 29) and he has accomplished more and is more responsible than my ex who is now 32. Don't believe the hype...older doesn't mean more secure or more mature. I have a friend who wouldn't think about dating a younger guy. I personally don't think it matters.Oh yeah, and the young ones are usually cuter ------------------ ~*~*~Don't use time or words carelessly, neither can be retrieved.~*~*~ AIM: cathyoNYC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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