angeluv Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Just curious, when you start seeing someone new, how long do you usually wait till you have sex with them? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarmenio Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Make them wait............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angeluv Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Originally posted by jarmenio Make them wait............. Yes, I plan on doing that!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarmenio Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 So who is the guy? I didn't know there was a new guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Why wait, we're all adults Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Until it just clicks... you know when... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angeluv Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Originally posted by jarmenio So who is the guy? I didn't know there was a new guy Who said anything about there being a new guy??? I was just curious. Anyway you know who I am waiting for! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angeluv Posted September 4 Author Report Share Posted September 4 Originally posted by dgmodel Until it just clicks... you know when... I know to wait untill it feels right. In the past I have done it too fast and regretted it. I was just curious how long everyone else usually waits. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 i typically wait until you have that moment, no specific time frame... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 How long you should wait, depends on you, the person your with and what and where you want the relationship to go. If you dont want anything serious and you dont care wha the thinks then whenever. But if you want something serious and real with this person you should take it slow dont rush anything. When you know more or less where his head is at you can decide if your ready. For me, it depends on how the relationship is. For someone I barely see or spend time with, it will take him alot longer to get in. But if i see this person on a regular basis, i get to feel him out more.GOOD LUCK! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 ummm...if you've already met before entering the bedroom you've been waiting. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
latroya Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Anything from 2 minutes to a couple of weeks...Whatever feels right.Though I must admit that in the past I used to not wait at all, thinking what's the point, etc. etc...But today I tend (or at least I try:laugh: ) to slow things down a bit...sometimes it even works :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ichi_gami Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 Originally posted by dgmodel Until it just clicks... you know when...i typically wait until you have that moment, no specific time frame... dgmodel says it all...ichi :rainbow: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 You'll just know when it's right. I think it's different for every person. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted September 5 Report Share Posted September 5 it depends but usually it will just feel right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jester22 Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 YOU SHOULD WAIT UNTIL YOUR HEART OR SOMETHING ELSE INSIDE YOU SAYS GO FOR IT! YOU WILL KNOW WHEN IT IS RIGHT. THERE IS NO SPECIFIED TIME YOU SHOULD WAIT. ONE DAY IS REDICULOUS BUT U CATCH MY DRIFT! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 i try and hold out until he kisses me on my damn neck or in that general area..... than it is all over..... damn hormones! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 Originally posted by stacychase i try and hold out until he kisses me on my damn neck or in that general area..... than it is all over..... damn hormones! you and me both girl like everyone said, its different with every situation:1st ex-bf...waited 2 weeks (didnt realize he couldnt dance til AFTER the sex --- HUGEST mistake)2nd ex-bf...waited 1 month (he lived in Long island)current bf....waited 1 week (thought he was awesome and too damn sexy...hehe.....still going strong since february)i dont think waiting a specific time frame always means a relationship will be doomed from the start either.....im living proof Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted September 7 Report Share Posted September 7 mmm sad question my laste date i waite 2 days and he use me i still regret that i meet this stupid guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angeluv Posted September 7 Author Report Share Posted September 7 Originally posted by scaredgirl mmm sad question my laste date i waite 2 days and he use me i still regret that i meet this stupid guy I can totally relate to you. I did it with this guy after like 3 days or so and he used me. But then there was nother guy, where he was into me, and I was into him, we did it and then all of sudden he just wanted to be friends! Apparently I was too naive to see that he used me! I feel sorry for any guy that I start to date now bc they are gonna have to wait!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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