SPYGIRL3 Posted December 13 Report Share Posted December 13 Can someone please tell me how you can be friends with someone one day, and then the next, they won't even talk to you????? It's not like you can ask them what's the issue, cause they aren't talking to you..... So annoyed:mad: :mad:I can be mad or upset with someone, but I usually tell them why, I don't stone wall them..... Doesn't that seem like the "proper" thing to do??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 Its easy, some people just dont get it, either that or they are trying to hurt you in a some way but yeah people suck get a dog or something cause I have just about had it with everyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Can someone please tell me how you can be friends with someone one day, and then the next, they won't even talk to you????? It's not like you can ask them what's the issue, cause they aren't talking to you..... So annoyed:mad: :mad:I can be mad or upset with someone, but I usually tell them why, I don't stone wall them..... Doesn't that seem like the "proper" thing to do??? either they werent really friends to begin withor they have poor communication skills Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 14 Author Report Share Posted December 14 Originally posted by glowdancer either they werent really friends to begin withor they have poor communication skills I found out there was some drama...so I guess it's poor communication skills........ :blank:Which makes me upset, because I thought something was wrong, and there was. I guess we all get caught up in the moment sometimes. I worry about my friends, I think it makes me over react sometims:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 some people dont like to talk about every single piece of dramma some people like to let it go as well and they dont need to talk about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bmw4jay Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Sometimes certain things happen to certain people that you couldn't imagine. Sounds cheesy, but sometimes you gotta work things out by yourself to conquer it. I speak from experience. Concern is greatly appreciated.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 17 Author Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by bmw4jay Sometimes certain things happen to certain people that you couldn't imagine. Sounds cheesy, but sometimes you gotta work things out by yourself to conquer it. I speak from experience. Concern is greatly appreciated.... I do understand that things happen, life is full of crazy shit. Working out a problem does take time, there a problems that no one can help you with , but you. Experience makes you wiser, be it from something bad or something good. No two experiences are ever the same, even if they are from the same problem. Concern happens when you really care about someone and how their life is going. If things that are standard start to change and then just stop, makes you wonder. Hurt feelings can make for harsh words and judgements. Friends always want to help, even if all they can do is give you an ear.......... :blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crashedfx Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Can someone please tell me how you can be friends with someone one day, and then the next, they won't even talk to you????? It's not like you can ask them what's the issue, cause they aren't talking to you..... So annoyed:mad: :mad:I can be mad or upset with someone, but I usually tell them why, I don't stone wall them..... Doesn't that seem like the "proper" thing to do??? I assume friend of yours, is already an grown, i mean like atleast over 18. If he/she wont talk at all, its very immature. Well leave a message on their answering machine with content like "Stop this shit please, its poitless, etc....."Im sure true friend will get over it in couple of days even without any messages. If not, then is this situation worth worrying about?Dont run after the situation, run ur own direction let the situation catch up with you. Reverse Psychology Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Can someone please tell me how you can be friends with someone one day, and then the next, they won't even talk to you????? It's not like you can ask them what's the issue, cause they aren't talking to you..... So annoyed:mad: :mad:I can be mad or upset with someone, but I usually tell them why, I don't stone wall them..... Doesn't that seem like the "proper" thing to do??? Im going through that right now... One of my Bestfriends just bounced out of my life, and wont return my calls, emails, and blocked me on AIM... who knows??? cant even find out why, wont talk to me, and he tells other friends no beef, just laying low, then you see him hanging out with everyone else still... who knows... another one of lifes mysteries... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Tell me about it!! Fucken ridiculous...what comes around goes around!! therefore it's all good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Can someone please tell me how you can be friends with someone one day, and then the next, they won't even talk to you????? It's not like you can ask them what's the issue, cause they aren't talking to you..... So annoyed:mad: :mad:I can be mad or upset with someone, but I usually tell them why, I don't stone wall them..... Doesn't that seem like the "proper" thing to do??? "if you place something in your life that lacks the power to nourish it will eventually poison everything you love and destroy you.......no one can be the source of your content, it comes from within"-maxi jazz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by bigpoppanils "if you place something in your life that lacks the power to nourish it will eventually poison everything you love and destroy you.......no one can be the source of your content, it comes from within"-maxi jazz HEY! that's a good quote, Big Poppa! I'll remember that concerning my ex who never returns my calls and blocks my emails. She just burns me up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 17 Author Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by crashedfx I assume friend of yours, is already an grown, i mean like atleast over 18. If he/she wont talk at all, its very immature. Well leave a message on their answering machine with content like "Stop this shit please, its poitless, etc....."Im sure true friend will get over it in couple of days even without any messages. If not, then is this situation worth worrying about?Dont run after the situation, run ur own direction let the situation catch up with you. Reverse Psychology Yeah, my friend is over 18, actually over 21. I dunno, I am gonna try not to let it get to me...... I am just worried that's all.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 17 Author Report Share Posted December 17 Originally posted by dgmodel Im going through that right now... One of my Bestfriends just bounced out of my life, and wont return my calls, emails, and blocked me on AIM... who knows??? cant even find out why, wont talk to me, and he tells other friends no beef, just laying low,who knows... another one of lifes mysteries... Ditto that....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted December 17 Report Share Posted December 17 Oh, when people do that, I just end it... I don't have time for 12yr old games.... If they decide they want to talk to me at some point thats fine, but i'm not playing the "hey, waste time and effort on finding out why your mad for no reason..." game... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 18 Author Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by joeg Oh, when people do that, I just end it... I don't have time for 12yr old games.... If they decide they want to talk to me at some point thats fine, but i'm not playing the "hey, waste time and effort on finding out why your mad for no reason..." game... I'm not sitting around waiting...If they wanna find me, they know how. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laurie619 Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 I understand where you are coming from SPYGIRL :laugh: Just remember... True friends stick together even when things arent sticky! You still have me baby don’t sweat it!Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted December 18 Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 I'm sitting around waiting...If they wanna find me, they know how. Yeah, thats the best way to do it... If you get in the habbit of jumping through hoops, you'll always do it... and people take advantage of that. So fuck em, I say jump for no one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted December 18 Author Report Share Posted December 18 Originally posted by joeg Yeah, thats the best way to do it... If you get in the habbit of jumping through hoops, you'll always do it... and people take advantage of that. So fuck em, I say jump for no one So true.....Sometimes you make an exception, but for the part no one else should rule your life.....Oh well, the world is still go on, everything happens for a reason...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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